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Incapable Or Culpable? Is Battered Spouse Responsible For Crimes Committed Against Her Children?


A criminal trial in Denver
is posing the intriguing ethical question: how responsible is a battered wife for the actions of her violent husband? The case centers on Karen Rodriguez, (clicking the previous underlined
link will take you to the article posted below) who has been "charged w/one count of sexual assault on a child
& 6 counts of sexual assault on a child by a person in a position of trust."
Mom aided abuse, son says
Man testifies he was molested at home for more than 10
years
By Bianca Prieto, Rocky Mountain News August 10, 2005
A mother and son sat on opposite
sides of a Denver courtroom Tuesday as the now 18-year-old man detailed years of sexual abuse that prosecutors say was facilitated by the one woman who should have protected him.
Karen Rodriguez, 40, is charged with one count of sexual assault on a child &
six counts of sexual assault on a child by a person in a position of trust.
The
mother has pleaded not feeling guilty, saying she failed to report the abuse because she was afraid her husband, Edward Rodriguez, would turn on her.
Edward Rodriguez, who is the
boy's stepfather, has already pleaded feeling guilty to two counts of sexual assault on a child by a person in a position of trust & is awaiting sentencing.
On Tuesday, the mother's lawyer
told jurors she is the victim of battered spouse syndrome, terrorized by a marriage that left her a prisoner in her own home.
But prosecutor David Lamb
said Karen Rodriguez's fear didn't justify her actions.
"Nothing Edward Rodriguez
ever did to her gave her the right to let him rape her children," he said.
Karen Rodriguez's son, whose
name is being withheld because he is a victim of sexual assault, testified that he was molested for more than 10 years, starting
at the age of 5.
When he was 15, he was forced
to dress up in women's clothing & wear makeup that was applied by his mother before his stepfather assaulted him.
In addition to the now 18-year-old
man, prosecutors say a younger sister was also assaulted while her mother held her down. The girl, now 10, is expected to testify this week.
Rodriguez's son told jurors
he was afraid to come forward when the abuse was happening.
"I never said anything because
I didn't want people to think I was lying," the son said. He went on to say that he "didn't want anything to happen to my sisters."
Edward Rodriguez threatened to kill his mother & little sisters if he ever told, he said.
The 18-year-old victim answered
questions in a steady voice without emotion. He didn't look at his mother until Lamb asked him to identify her.
Defendant Karen Rodriguez
sat with her long brown hair falling in her face as she rubbed her forehead, occasionally wiping away tears.
The abuse first came to authorities' attention last summer after Karen Rodriguez was beaten with a large flashlight by her husband.
She ran screaming & bloody
from the house to a neighbor who called police.
As a result of that incident,
her son told his mother he was going to tell police "what was really going on," he said.
She then took him to the police
station.
In a videotaped interview
with Denver police, Karen Rodriguez admitted to watching & helping her husband sexually assault her son.
A panel of 13 jurors watched
the hourlong video in which Rodriguez bluntly described her husband's actions. She added details about her son's assaults
& explained how she had also been physically & sexually abused by Edward Rodriguez.
The mother's attorney, Charles
Leidner, told jurors his client had been chained to a bed, shot with a BB gun & battered with an iron. At times, Edward
Rodriguez threatened to cut her children into pieces & put them into the freezer, he said.
He had "a grip (on her) unlike anything you've ever experienced," Leidner said.
Karen Rodriguez has since
filed for divorce.
Edward Rodriguez never allowed
visitors to the family's home & refused to let his wife use the phone without permission, the son said. The window blinds
in the house were constantly closed & Karen Rodriguez was forbidden from standing in the windows.
On at least one occasion,
Edward Rodriguez beat his wife because he thought she was looking at another man, the 18-year-old testified.
In the video, Karen Rodriguez
told police that she was never allowed to be close to her son or left alone in the same room. She said her husband was afraid that she might touch her son. He also accused her of being a lesbian, so she never allowed her daughters to hug her, she
said.
The trial is scheduled to
resume today.

These charges were brought
against her because she failed to report abuse committed by her husband, Edward Rodriguez.
As she explains, she was "the
victim of battered spouse syndrome, terrorized by a marriage that left her a prisoner in her own home." Karen, who is disabled, "was repeatedly hit with a fist, handcuffed
& hung over a door & chained to a bed." In addition, Edward warned her that "if she ever called police, he'd kill
the children, slice them into little pieces & freeze the remains."
Thanks to this terror, Edward Rodriguez forced his wife to facilitate his abuse of his children. Their son "was molested for more than 10 years,
starting at the age of 5."
In opening statements, prosecutors said Tuesday that the mother dressed her son as
a schoolgirl, put makeup on his face & then watched as his stepfather raped him. Prosecutors also said the boy's mother
held down his younger sister while his stepfather raped her.
what do you think?
was this mother capable of protecting her children or incapable?
(read more by clicking the underlined link words)
People who are sensible about love are incapable of
it.
Douglas Yates


A Question of Abuse
By Judith Levine Mother Jones,
July/August 1996
An
influential group of therapists is promoting a new scare: children who molest other children. Those who question the murky evidence are said to be in denial. But it is the kids, taken from home & given intense therapy, who might be sufferering the most.
Note:
The names & identifying characteristics of the family members have been changed.
Tony
Diamond is a troubled boy. Charming & tractable one minute, he may be flailing in rage or brooding in despair the next. Tony's classwork is outstanding; he reads widely & writes winningly. In a report on Napoleon, he quotes the
"battleous" (& apparently bilingual) "military genius" as uttering the famous palindrome,
"Able was I ere I saw Elba." Yet he fights & disobeys at school - & in his short life he's attended several.
Like
other boys his age, 12, Tony likes Star Wars & baseball. He takes care of a small menagerie at home - a hamster, a rabbit & a garrulous cockatiel. But he can be mean to his sister, Jessica,
one year his junior, dark & soft where he is blond & slender, slow in class where he excels. Their relationship, it
seems, is fierce - fiercely affectionate & fiercely antagonistic. One evening, they sit next to each other, playing quietly. Another time, she climbs into the car & he slaps her.

Three
years ago, in November 1993, San Diego County Child Protective Services pronounced Tony a grave danger to his sister.
Jessie had told someone at school that her brother had "touched her private parts, front & back."
Mandated
by the 1974 Child Abuse Prevention & Treatment Act to report any suspicion of child abuse, even by a child & even without substantiation, Jessica's elementary school called the Child Abuse Hotline. A social
worker elicited a record of Tony's earlier offenses: In elementary school, he used sexual language & looked under girls'
skirts; at 4, he lay on top of Jessie in the bath.
San
Diego Juvenile Court charged Tony with "sexual abuse" of Jessica "including, but not limited to, touching her vaginal & anal areas...placing a pencil in her buttocks," & threatening to hurt her if she "disclosed the molest."
"It
would appear from a review of the case," the social worker wrote, "that Tony is a budding sex offender." Tony was 9 years
old.
What
followed for the Diamonds was a nightmare, executed by a system so zealous to protect children from perceived sexual abuse that it may fracture their families & crush their spirits in the process. First Tony & then Jessica were removed
from their mother's home & placed in state custody. Only after more than 2 years of foster & group homes, treatment
programs & the representation of a private lawyer, would the family be reunited.

But
blame for the Diamond family's travails can't be assigned exclusively to San Diego County caseworkers, therapists & judges.
They, like many of the nation's journalists, politicians & parents, suspect sex abusers are everywhere & include everyone - the competent teacher, the friendly neighbor, the loving father.
Now,
sex abuse hysteria has delivered a new kind of perpetrator: "children who molest."
These
kids, as young as 2, are diagnosed & treated & sometimes prosecuted, for "inappropriate" behaviors like diddling,
licking, putting things inside genitals, flashing, mooning, or masturbating "compulsively."
They're accused of "coercion,"
though often the sex play is consensual.
Some
kids have committed real sexual intrusions on other kids. But while these children are almost always aggressive in other ways -- they fight, steal, or set fires, i.e. - the unproved assumption, deeply embedded in American psychological
ideology, is that sex is a wholly different & worse, category of behavior, profoundly symptomatic for the doer & inevitably
traumatic for the done-to.
So,
with little supportive evidence, the new children-who-molest experts have persuaded the child protective systems they work for that "sex-offense-specific" therapy is necessary for any kid with a "sexual behavior problem." They
insist this therapy, whose methodologies derive from their own theories, can be practiced only by them or others they have
trained.

When
Diane Diamond invited a caseworker into her blue-&-beige adobe house, she had a naive faith in the helping professions. The quick, blond woman had undergone plenty of healing herself, by both traditional & new
age practitioners & in several Child Protective Services interviews she poured out her family's history in sentences studded
w/psychologisms.
She
told the caseworkers that, pregnant w/Jessica, she'd fled the children's father, who had beaten & raped her & had
choked 1-year-old Tony; she reported that a man had exposed himself to Jessica in the park & she'd tried to press charges;
she said that the children might have been encouraged in sexual play by a babysitter years earlier.
Diane
told Child Protective Services she was concerned about her son's volatility & depression; she thought he might even be suicidal & she hoped they'd help find him therapy.
Twenty
years ago that might have happened. The school could have referred Diane to a child or family therapist to deal w/the whole
constellation of her children's needs. But today, teachers & social workers, undereducated in psychology & overtrained (often
by law enforcers) in sexual abuse, tend to see sexual pathology & criminal exploitation in any situation that looks even remotely sexual.

So
Diane's tale turned against her, becoming a sort of stationhouse confession about a criminally insane family: Tony had a history
of abuse (a psychologist wrote that he had "witnessed" his mother's rape, though he was only months old);
the possible abuse by a babysitter was recorded as though it were a certain & traumatic event; Jessica's glimpse of the flasher's penis
was added to her list of victimizations. Because Diane was at the time more worried about Tony than about Jessica, who seemed OK, Child Protective Services decided
Diane was "minimizing" the "molestation," & judged her incapable of protecting her daughter.
Tony
was declared a "sex offender," made a ward of the San Diego dependency court & removed from his mother's custody.
Panic
over child abuse seems to sprout from the desert soil of San Diego as abundantly as neon fuchsia succulents & bougainvillea. The county
has been the scene of a string of highly publicized false allegations of molestation, including satanic ritual abuse, going back to the 1980's.
In
1992, a major grand jury investigation found the county's child welfare agencies & juvenile courts to be "a system out of control," so keen on protecting children from predation that it took hundreds of them away from their parents on what turned out to be false charges. The
report called for "profound change" throughout the system.

Carol
Hopkins, deputy forewoman of that grand jury, now chairs the Justice Committee, which works to overturn false convictions
of satanic ritual abuse & child abuse. She says some of the changes were instituted, but that many of the same people are still working in the child protection system. When cases of kids accused of abuse started crossing her desk, with these same names on them, Hopkins felt queasy. "This," she thought, "is the next satanic ritual abuse."
San Diego Union-Tribune reporter Mark Sauer saw it coming, too. In the early 1990's, he watched psychologist
Toni Cavanagh Johnson & social worker Kee MacFarlane presenting their work on children who molest at a professional conference
held in San Diego. He was astonished.
"First they state that there is no research - that we really don't know anything about normal children's sexual
behavior," he recalls. "Then out come the pie charts & graphs & they go on for an hour defining this new abnormality.
And everybody is madly taking notes."
Sauer
had reason to be suspicious of MacFarlane & the clinic she worked for, Children's Institute International in Los Angeles.
His newspaper had published some of the only skeptical coverage of the 1980s McMartin Preschool satanic ritual abuse trials.
Sauer
knew MacFarlane as the woman who headed the team that interrogated nearly 400 children for the prosecution & found 369
to have been victimized in bizarre rituals including anal rape, animal mutilation & kidnapping thru secret tunnels. Except for one, none of the
children mentioned abuse until they got to CII. After the jury saw MacFarlane's taped interviews, full of leading, hectoring questions, they voted
to acquit the defendants.

Johnson,
now the children-who-molest guru, had not yet joined CII at the time of the McMartin interviews, but became affiliated with
the clinic & began working w/MacFarlane in 1985. She left the clinic in 1990 & her tenure isn't mentioned in her publicity
materials. It was Johnson who first coined the diagnostic description, "children who molest," in a 1988 paper, while working
w/MacFarlane at CII's Support Program for Abusive Reactive Kids.
Since
then, her 1993 book, Sexualized Children: Assessment and Treatment of Sexualized Children and Children
Who Molest, co-authored with psychologist Eliana Gil, has become the specialty's main text.
As
in the satanic ritual abuse scare, the prophets of this plague claim the problem is enormous, but we don't see it because we aren't looking hard enough.
"[Children who molest] make all of us uncomfortable," writes MacFarlane in her 1996 book, When Children Abuse, "so uncomfortable, we've had to deny their existence &/or minimize their behavior until now.
We've
called their behavior 'exploration' or 'curiosity' until they were old enough for us to comfortably call it what it is: sexual abuse of other children.
"Who
are they?" she continues. "So far, relatively few have come to our attention."

In
fact, arrests for juvenile sex offenses are up in many states. Although this demonstrates increasing alertness on the
part of the juvenile justice system, it doesn't necessarily indicate that juvenile sex offenses are on the rise.
Police
records are unenlightening about what exactly is happening between children - the courts label as a "sexual offense" everything
from consensual fondling between different-age kids to forced sodomy. It's even harder to tell what's happening in the dependency
courts, where younger kids are sent, because those records are confidential.
Moreover,
the 1974 Child Abuse Prevention & Treatment Act offered an incentive to rout out alleged sexual abuse: States get federal matching funds for programs that identify & treat abused kids & prosecute their abusers, including minor offenders. Since then, child abuse reports have grown dramatically. But of the 2.9 million child abuse reports filed in 1993, 2/3 couldn't be substantiated.
Despite
a near-absolute absence of normative data about what kids actually do sexually, literature on this new category of juvenile
"deviance" is filling up the child abuse bibliographies. In 1984, there were no treatment programs for such kids.
Today,
the Vermont-based Safer Society Foundation database lists 50 residential & 396 nonresidential programs that treat "sex
offenders" under 12. And at the 1995 Association for the Treatment of Sex Abusers conference, about 80% of the exhibition
tables featured literature on such programs for children & adolescents.

As
the diagnosis of "sexual behavior problems" gains currency in sex abuse circles, it's also on its way to wider ratification, which in turn will boost media attention, funding & business. Two
five-year, $1 million studies that provided therapy & evaluated the best treatment approach for hundreds of "sexualized"
children under 12 are just wrapping up in Vermont, Oklahoma & Washington.
And
if this major grant from the government's National Center on Child Abuse & Neglect (NCCAN)
doesn't institutionalize the new sickness, some psychologists are promoting the inclusion of juvenile sex offending into the
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM, the canon of psychopathologies.
For
more than two years, almost a score of adults - foster parents, social workers, psychologists & judges - evaluated, disciplined
& relocated Tony, planned his treatments (few of which he received), supervised his
relationship w/his family & generated thousands of pages of paper.
Tony
was found to be in need of "boundaries." So he was placed with a foster mother, who kept him inside much of the day, stored his toys on an inaccessible shelf in
the garage & punished him when he was "manipulative," by making him sit on the stairs for hours. Later, the foster mother accused Tony of "sexual assault" for pushing against
her while she was doing dishes. (Tony's court-appointed therapist, Philip Kaushall, interviewed
the boy about the incident. "I don't believe he did it," Kaushall reported.)

From
the start, Child Protective Services identified Jessie as the victim, though it will probably never be known how much of the
sex play between the siblings was consensual. In fact, Jessie later told a social worker that one of the main incidents that
put her brother in foster care didn't even involve disrobing. Tony "poked her with a pencil over the clothes. The pencil wasn't
inside her body. He just hurt her a little & she didn't like it," the social worker reported.
Jessie
was getting attention for talking about abuse. In May 1994, she told a different social worker her mother had sexually abused her by lying on top of her in bed. (She also said a social worker "wanted to molest" her, but
this charge wasn't investigated.) Later, at least one psychologist would find the girl unable to "differentiate between imagination & reality."
When
Jessie's mother, whose criminal record consisted of one unpaid fine for a broken taillight, explained that she'd reached across
her daughter to turn off the electric blanket, Child Protective Services found her "in denial." The agency made a "true finding" of abuse & took Jessie from Diane & sent her to a foster home, too.

What
potential harm could justify removing two small children from a mother whose only observed transgression was a distrust of
the child protective authorities?
Barbara
Bonner, who is running the largest component of the 5 year, NCCAN studies, in Oklahoma City, acknowledges that such interventions
are "driven by values," because the science of child sexual development is so paltry.
"We'll
probably never know the harm [of children behaving sexually], because no one will ever do
that with those kids - let them get inappropriately involved w/other children [in a clinical setting],"
she explains. "They might become oversexually stimulated & prefer sexual behavior to sports, dance, or other more appropriate
activities. They might become promiscuous as adults. But
we don't have long-term outcomes. They may turn out to be normal."
Nonetheless,
she says, "We recommend, as people who are hopefully knowledgeable & as a society, what we consider to be appropriate & in the best interest of children." Her program's
"sexual behavior rules" for 6 to 11 year-olds include not touching others' "private parts" or letting others touch or see
theirs.

Toni
Johnson also says that some sexual behavior among kids is OK. "Normal, healthy sexuality is what we need in children. There is no problem with that," she said in an interview. "You think we are out looking to condemn children's sexual behaviors. For the last 8 years, I've been talking on this continuum. You're
finding the extraordinary cases." What defines molestation, says Johnson, is sex that is aggressive or nonconsensual.
The
position sounds reasonable, except that Johnson & her followers define unhealthy "aggression" on their own terms, often dismissing the children's experience - most notably when the victim doesn't feel victimized.
"I
don't know if it's the degree of pleasantness or unpleasantness that ought to be the guideline that determines whether it's
appropriate or not," says Bonner. "The victim should be defined by somebody other than the child."
But
sexologist Leonore Tiefer suggests that even coercive aggression ought not necessarily be pathologized. "Kids push & hit & demand, until they're socialized," she said.

In
fact, a study of 128 psychologically healthy Bryn Mawr College students, who wrote about their thrilling games of porn
star, rapist & slave girl when they were young, indicates that even "force may exist on a continuum" within normative
child sex play. Definitions of consent aren't cut & dried.
And
therein lies the problem: Except in the most benign games of doctor between children of the same age, the children-who-molest
experts generally rule out the possibility that any underage child can consent to sex.
In
his "Pathways" workbook for youthful sexual transgressors, Bellevue, Wash., social worker Tim Kahn tells readers that to consent,
"the partner must understand the proposed action, know what society's standards are for this action, [and] be aware of the consequences & alternatives."
Then
how can a child who isn't a lawyer consent to sex? "Children don't know what they're consenting to," Kahn states. "They need
to be protected from more manipulative or sophisticated persons."
So
why not improve sex education, rather than stigmatize sex by rushing kids to a specialist? The reasoning lies in two main
elements of children - who - molest theory.

The
first - a corollary of the so-called cycle of abuse - is that "age-inappropriate" behavior is a symptom that the perpetrator is himself a victim of abuse. (Where else, the logic goes, would a 7-year-old get the idea of putting a crayon, or a penis,
into somebody's vagina?) Although this is sometimes true, even Johnson admits that plenty of kids who have sex aren't
abused.
Yet
the term "abuse-reactive" is used almost universally when describing "sex abusers" under 12 & social workers & law enforcement professionals
facing "inappropriate" sexual behavior by children almost automatically suspect the parents.
The
second element is the belief that sex acts by children are often more coercive than we think & therefore must be stopped, lest the perpetrator grow up to become a bona fide molester.
"[Adult]
offenders will tell you they started out young, maybe masturbating in public," says Bill Southwell, co-chair of a countywide
task force on juvenile sex offenders. (Southwell also supervised the San Diego County sheriff's
child abuse unit from 1985 to 1988 & from 1991 to 1994, when it conducted some infamously flawed investigations.)

However,
the fact that adult offenders experimented sexually as children doesn't mean that children who experiment become sex offenders;
prison & clinical populations simply don't represent the general population, says Temple University psychology professor
Bruce Rind.
In
any case, the children-who-molest theorists argue that even if a kid isn't being abused & even if he won't become a grown-up
abuser, "age-inappropriate" sex is a sign of emotional distress.
Johnson
alerts parents to be concerned if a child exhibits at least three "problematic" behaviors, like wanting to be naked in public,
using dirty words after being told "no," or "touch[ing] the genitals of animals," & to seek professional help if he asks
"endless questions about sex."
What's
wrong with these things? "They make parents nervous," says Allie Kilpatrick, a social work professor at the University of
Georgia who conducted a massive review of the literature on childhood sexual experiences, both wanted & unwanted &
administered her own 33-page questionnaire to 501 Southern women.

Most
of Kilpatrick's subjects had kissed & hugged, fondled & masturbated as adolescents & more than a quarter had had
vaginal intercourse. Her conclusion: "The majority of young people who experience some kind of sexual behavior find it pleasurable,
w/out much guilt & w/no harmful consequences."
A
similar study of 526 New England undergraduates revealed "no differences...between sibling, nonsibling & no-[sexual]-experience groups on a variety of adult sexual behavior & sexual adjustment measures."
Around
the globe, just about everything Johnson considers worrisome is unremarkable. Clellan Ford & Frank Beach, in the classic
1951 Patterns of Sexual Behavior, examined 191 of the world's peoples, including Americans. "As long as the adult members
of a society permit them to do so," they noted, "immature males & females engage in practically every type of sexual behavior
found in grown men & women."
In
fact, most sexologists say that the trauma of kids' sex usually comes not from the sex itself, but from adults getting upset about it.
Despite
Child Protective Services' official intentions, Tony got almost no therapy until November 1994, when Philip Kaushall, a psychologist the county had appointed to supervise
family visits, agreed to conduct joint sessions w/Tony's mother.

When
he met the Diamonds that summer, Kaushall was shocked that the children were in foster care: He recognized troubles in the family, but nothing that warranted separation. In September, he began recommending to the authorities that
the kids go home.
Around
that time, Jessica started attending Daughters & Sons United, an incest treatment group, where she reported learning about
"good & bad guilt," the latter of which she understood as "when you tell on somebody about something & you feel bad about it." She'd come out of those meetings angry & excited, recalls Diane.
"And
she'd go, 'I'm gonna report you, Mother,' every time she got mad." Meanwhile, Jessie's therapist was repeatedly asking the
girl about "bad things that might happen" if the children went home, according to a social worker's report.
Both
children's therapy continued, but what went on in Kaushall's office didn't fulfill Tony's requirement to undergo "offender treatment" w/a therapist specifically trained in children-who-molest theory. So,
in October 1995, almost 2 years after the "offense," Juvenile Court put Tony in a "sexually reactive children's" group w/social
worker David McWhirter, among the county's most prominent therapists of juvenile offenders. (McWhirter
also runs a treatment program for older children. See "Drastic Steps").

But
soon McWhirter, who describes the children's group work as "soft confrontation," wrote Kaushall to inform him that Tony was
disruptive. The boy didn't want to confess guilt, the first step required for "recovery," & was doubtful of the other kids' guilt, too. ("Mom," he reported one afternoon, "there's one kid in there for mooning!")
Kaushall
encouraged Tony & Diane to cooperate, but he says that privately he felt McWhirter's approach might be a failure from the get-go. "There may be a need for therapy," says Kaushall. "But if you treat somebody specifically for a 'sex offense,' you're undercutting the treatment
automatically, because you give them an identity as a sex offender, which is precisely what you don't want them to have."
The
treatment of sex offenders, including little ones, is classic good cop-bad cop stuff. The theory sounds like children's rights
propaganda:
promote
self-esteem & empathy, consent & equality.
But
the practice is anything but fair & the rights of both kids & parents are all but disregarded. A patient receives no due process: As long as he protests
his innocence, he is "in denial" & he can be dropped from the program - without which he can't get out of state custody.
Worse:
His treatment, unlike a jail sentence, may go on indefinitely.

The
American Civil Liberties Union Prison Project has sued a number of similar programs for adults, including one in Vermont,
whose "drama therapy" portion compelled inmates to simulate anal rape while the therapist shouted obscenities at them. (The program's director, William Pithers, is now co-director of the Vermont component of the NCCAN study
to devise treatment for sexualized children.)
Parents
who take exception to either the charges or the treatment are considered part of the problem. Usually mandated to therapy
themselves, they're counseled to overlook their own judgment, stop trusting their kids & heed their betters.
And
if parents don't bite the carrot of "cure," the stick isn't far away. "In cases where children are very young & families
aren't very cooperative, it may require a Dependency Court petition regarding neglect, failure to supervise, or other category addressing parental responsibility in order to compel parents to cooperate with recommended living arrangements & treatment plans," writes MacFarlane in
When Children Abuse. In plain English: Resist treatment & risk losing your kid.
Diane
Diamond's resistance to the state's approach to her family's problem became the main impediment to her getting her kids back.
"You should be aware that your conduct at Tony's birthday party...was inappropriate & detrimental to your reunification efforts," wrote one
caseworker, enumerating her transgressions. Among them: "You put your arms around Tony's neck & whispered into his ear."

Once
the narrative was inscribed - crazy mother makes boy a molester, victimizes girl - no alternative story could be told. When Jessie confessed to a social worker, almost immediately, that she had "told
lies" about her mother's alleged molesting, social workers presumed her to be exhibiting accommodation syndrome, that is,
suffering the consequences of being removed from the life she knew & thus lying to put things back as they were.
Diane
sold her car & hired a private lawyer to try to get her children back. She spent Christmas of 1994 alone, while the hearing was delayed. In February 1995, she had her day in dependency court - & lost. Tony was sent to yet
another foster home, where he began losing weight & hope. Jessie was in her 7th foster home, pleading to be returned to her mother. Kaushall wrote report after report to Child Protective
Services that institutionalization & separation from their mother was damaging the children & that Diane's home was
the best place for them.
As
it happens, after 18 months of holding a child in custody, federal law requires that the dependency court come up w/a permanent
plan - to send him home, place him in long-term foster care, appoint a guardian, or terminate the parents' rights & refer
him for adoption.
Yet
it took an additional 7 months before Child Protective Services made arrangements to move Tony & Jessica back home. The
final outcome of the Diamonds' case appears to be a combination of bureaucratic fatigue, Diane's refusal to give up her children
without a savage fight & Kaushall's intervention, which may have prevented the children from being put up for adoption.
The
splintered family was reunited early this year, although Jessie will officially remain in state custody until this fall.
Over
the past two centuries, the arbiters of deviance have moved from the pulpit to the clinic. But, as Barbara Bonner suggests,
"normal" remains a moral category. And, just as 19th-century doctors who surgically "cured" masturbation & Progressive
Era judges who sent girls to reform school for sexual "precociousness" were enforcing the social-religious order, today's
diagnosers of "childhood sexual behavior problems" reveal a terror of pleasurable excess & an anger at kids who won't buckle under sexual taboos.
The
same moralistic intolerance of desire quashes the behavioral research critical to stemming real perils, like the spread of AIDS & teen pregnancy. Congress'
reauthorization of the National Institutes of Health in 1993, for example, specifically prohibited appropriations for sexuality
surveys, moving those moneys to programs that promote premarital celibacy.
"This
all reminds me of heroic gynecology [during the early 20th century], which regarded the
birth process itself as a pathological thing," says Vern Bullough, a distinguished professor emeritus at SUNY who has written
or edited over 50 books on sexuality. "What we've got now is heroic intervention in childhood sexuality by people who don't
know what they are talking about."
Kaushall
says he's equally disgusted. "There's no doubt in my mind that what was done [to the Diamonds] was 100 times worse than any problem they
had to begin with. It was handled w/a lethal combination of zealotry & incompetence."
Jessie,
he believes, "has learned that when she talks about sex, everyone will drop their forks & knives & listen. She knows sex is a powerful weapon." The "sex offender" Tony suffered harshness & betrayal from adults; he is depressed & mistrustful. For both kids, Kaushall says, "the developmental harm of breaking a bond with the parent is tremendous."
On
a bright Sunday in March, though, everybody seems OK. Jessie goes off to an "ugly dog show" with a church volunteer &
the rest of us drive to La Jolla to wade in the tide pools. Tony hugs his mom frequently, demands to go to McDonald's &
mopes when he doesn't get to. "I'm a survivor," Diane tells me, estimating that her ordeal has cost more than $30,000. She
chats about "our plans" to move to Arizona - or maybe Oregon, she says, because "we love the beach." She uses "we" often,
as if to repossess that fragile pronoun.
Tony
& I peel snails from a rock as Diane explains that I'm writing about their family. His brown eyes become serious &
he asks: "Are you writing about cruelty to children in California?"
Judith Levine's second book, In Search of Innocence:
America's Battle Over Children's Sexuality, is scheduled for publication in 1998 by Houghton-Mifflin.
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Oh
the humanity! March 14th, 2005
Is there any doubt that there's something seriously wrong with a judicial process which leads to the prohibition of the care & feeding, by her own parents, of a brain damaged woman? Of course, the woman to whom I refer is Terri Schiavo.
We've all become aware of Terri's situation in recent years & the attempts by her husband, Michael, to have her feeding tube removed, based
upon his assertion that Terri once told him she wouldn't want to live if ever she became as severely disabled as she has since
become.
The Schiavo case has been
batted about the legal world for 7 years so far, which is a truly scandalous fact in my opinion. Frankly, I'm astounded that it was ever allowed to be argued in a court of law beyond the initial 1998 hearing, but like
Ted Kennedy's backside, this case just seems to go on & on.
There are some people within
the legal community who have taken a position on the matter which is contrary to my own. But the logic by which they've reached
their conclusions is fundamentally flawed & their demeanors are indicative of what I can only describe as utter soullessness.
Terri Schiavo never penned
a living will, which is a document created by sound-minded individuals to elucidate their wishes, should they become unable to express them due to the onset of a debilitating & seemingly irreversible medical condition.
In light of this fact, it
should have been assumed from the start that Terri would want to live, no matter what her apparent condition, if any possibility
exists of her being able to think & feel. The contention by Michael Schiavo & his lawyers that Terri is necessarily devoid of any mental & emotional substance
whatsoever, is absurd on its face & any judge who is incapable of recognizing that isn't competent to sit on the bench.
My own mother spent her last
days of life in a catatonic state worse than Terri's, following a long battle with pancreatic cancer. I was told by several
doctors at the time that it was impossible to determine if people in her condition had the capacity to understand spoken words, or experience emotions.
Yet, both my father &
I behaved as if she could, whispering comforting thoughts to her and stroking her forehead as she lay motionless in her hospital bed. You see, although we didn't know for a fact that
what we were saying was getting through to her, we had to assume she could understand our words. To do otherwise was unthinkable to us, as I suspect it would have been to most anyone in our position.
Perhaps we were merely deluding
ourselves at that point, but we both understood that if we were to err, it was far better to err on the side of humanity & compassion. It was never a subject of debate between us & I can't imagine that any other family would have acted differently under
similar circumstances.
But my personal experiences
aside, it seems to me that Terri Schiavo is due the same rights that every other person in this country enjoys. To deny her those rights, based upon the unsubstantiated testimony of her husband, who has behaved like a complete louse from day
one, is prejudicial at the very least.
Those who've declared categorically
that Terri would want to succumb to starvation & dehydration, a truly horrifying prospect & that her parents should
have no say in the matter, almost deserve to be locked up & deprived of food & water themselves for a few days. Perhaps then they'd be able to appreciate the consequences of what they're suggesting.
Basic human decency dictates
that we give Terri the benefit of the doubt that she desires to go on living, even though she is unable tell us so. I may not be the smartest man in the world, but I do know that her life deserves to be treated with more respect than certain law practitioners have exhibited. No human being can know what is in the mind & heart of this woman, and
for anyone to say that they can is arrogant in the extreme.
I'll tell you something else
as well. If Terri were my daughter, I'd be damned if I'd just sit around & watch as she was forced to endure a slow, torturous
death, merely because some black-robed nincompoop said that's the way it has to be. You'd have to put a gun to my head to
stop me from making sure she had all the food & water she needed. But that's just me.
Edward L. Daley is the Owner of the Daley Times-Post



When Does Human Life Begin?
The question of when a human
life begins is a profoundly intricate one, with widespread implications, ranging from abortion rights to stem cell research
& beyond. A key point in the debate rests on the way
in which we choose to define the concepts of humanity, life & human life.
What does it mean to be alive?
What does it mean to be human?
Is a zygote or an embryo alive?
Is a zygote or an embryo a
human being?
These are intricate philosophical
questions that often incite intense debate, for their answers are used as evidence in the answers to questions about the moral
status of a zygote, embryo or fetus.
The question of when human
life begins has been pondered throughout history & in a multitude of cultural contexts. The "answer" is fluid, in that
it has been changing throughout history, because any answer about when human life begins is deeply integrated with the beliefs, values & social constructs of the community or individual that drew the conclusion.
Throughout history there have
been several "answers" to the question of when human life begins, but the only consistency among the answers is that they
are always changing as social contexts change, religious morals fluctuate, or new knowledge about the process of embryo development
is obtained.
A particularly interesting
aspect regarding the question of when human life begins is how the answer to the question is obtained. As the criteria &
social contexts change, what methodology or fundamental principles did people use to answer this complicated & convoluted
question?
Historically, the answer has
been coupled w/the issue of abortion. As people tried to determine what stage abortion was acceptable, they often confronted
the question as to when abortion should be considered destruction of a human life. While abortion is also a complicated issue
w/many confounding political, social & cultural factors, historically one of the fundamental determinants of the moral
consequences of abortion, stemmed from what stage people viewed the embryo as a human being.
The moral acceptance of abortion
extended from the question as to whether abortion was the destruction of tissue, or whether it was an act of homicide. An
analysis of the historical controversy over abortion issues can lead to an understanding of how communities & individuals throughout history were able to address the question of when human life begins.

Historical Views of When Human Life Begins
At times, the distinction
as to when human life begins was based on a community's need to regulate its population flux. In ancient Sparta, abortion was frowned upon because it ran counter to the desire to raise
strong males for military struggles. Yet in Sparta, the practice of leaving a child to die of exposure on a hillside wasn't
considered murder if the child was judged to be unsuitable for some reason (Morowitz & Trefil
1992).
It's unclear whether Spartans
believed that one obtained personhood after birth & the regulation on abortion was purely for political reasons, or whether
they believed that personhood was obtained prior to birth & that it was a status unattainable by deformed infants.
Plato contended that the human
soul doesn't enter the body until birth & this was determinative for legal science in ancient Roman society (Buss 1967). In his Republic, Plato writes that abortion should be compelled in any woman who becomes
pregnant after 40. Plato, in the ideal state detailed in his Republic, laid it down as a matter of eugenic policy that
parents should bear children for the state for a defined period of years.
After that period sexual intercourse
would be permitted, but the couple involved would make every effort to prevent any children conceived from seeing light &
dispose of the newborn child only if the former course proved impossible (Bonner 1985).
While Ancient Romans may not
have openly approved of the practice of abortion, it wasn't considered a serious offence. Indeed, Seneca disapprovingly states,
that it was common practice for a woman to induce abortion in order to maintain the beauty of her figure (Tribe 1990).

The Stoics held that the fetus
was no more than a part of the women's body during the entire duration of pregnancy & was ensouled only at birth by a
species of cooling by the air, which transformed a lump of flesh into a living & sentient being (Tribe
1990).
Pythagoreans stressed that
the human soul was created at the time of conception & this is reflected in the Hippocratic oath. Hippocrates was of seemingly
a minority position in ancient Greece, in that he disapproved of abortion. The Oath expressly forbids giving a woman "an instrument
to produce abortion" & it's been interpreted to forbid inducing abortion by any other method (Tribe
1990). Hippocrates outright disapproval of abortion stemmed from his belief that conception marked the beginning of a human life (Tribe 1990).
Aristotle formulated a view
on abortion & the beginning of human life that was widely accepted & even acknowledged & practiced for some time in the Catholic Church. Aristotle believed that the state should fix the number of children a married couple could have & while Aristotle held the common Greek
view that deformed children ought not to be reared, he objected to the exposure of healthy infants merely as a method of population
control.
In his view, the size of the
family should be determined by the state & if children were conceived in excess of the permitted number, an abortion should
be procured at an early stage of pregnancy "before sensation & life develop in the embryo" (Bonner,
1985).
Aristotle detailed the notion
of the "animation" of the fetus & associated individuality, life & form as those features for which the "soul" was
responsible at a certain point in gestation. Aristotle asserted that when soul was added to the matter in the womb, a living individuated
creature was created, which had the form & rational power of a man (O'Donovan 1975).
This process of formation
or animation, manifested by the movement of the fetus in the womb, took place, in Aristotle's opinion, on the 40th day after conception in the case of a male child & on the 90th day after conception for a female child (Bonner 1985). Aristotle explained this difference in animation times, for males & females,
based on his perceived fundamental differences between men & women.
Aristotle believed that males were more active than females, thus he believed that they were quicker to develop, obtain a soul & become animated within the womb. Females on the other hand were viewed
as physically & intellectually inferior to men; therefore, their process of ensoulment took a longer time to complete (Bonner 1985).

The Catholic Church, including
both Thomas Acquinas & Augustine of Hippo, held the view that fetuses were animated (i.e.,
ensouled) around day 40.
The Jewish interpretation
of when human life begins is extracted predominantly from 3 sources:
- the Torah
- the Jewish Talmudic Law
- the rabbinical writings
Since the Torah doesn't make
any direct references regarding the beginning of human life, the inferences as to when human life begins has stemmed from
the Torah's stated position on the issue of abortion.
In the Torah, there isn't
an explicit prohibition directed against a voluntary abortion. The legislation in the Torah makes only one reference to abortion
& it's thru implication (Jakobovits 1973):
And if men strive together,
and hurt a woman with a child, so that her fruit depart, and yet no harm follow, he shall be surely fined, according as the woman's
husband shall lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine. But if any harm follow, then shalt thou give life for
life... (Exodus 21: 22-23; as cited by Jakobovits 1973).

According to the Jewish interpretation,
if "no harm follow" the "hurt" to the woman resulting in the loss of her fruit refers to the survival of the woman following her miscarriage; in that case
there is no capital guilt involved & the attacker is merely liable to pay compensation for the distress that the miscarriage may cause the family (Jakobovits, 1973).
"But if any harm follow,"
i.e., the woman is fatally injured, then the man responsible for her death has to give "life for life"; in that event the capital charge of murder exempts him from any monetary liability
for the aborted fetus (Jakobovits 1973).
From the interpretation of
this passage it can be concurred that the killing of an unborn child isn't considered murder punishable by death in Jewish
law. What is explicitly stated in the Jewish text, is that murder is an offense that is punishable by death: "He that smiteth
a man, so that he dieth, shall surely be put to death" (Exodus 21:12; as cited by Jakobovits 1973).
The Rabbis had to reconcile
the contexts of these two passages & reached the conclusion that the capital charge of murder should be used for death
of "a man, but not a fetus" (Mekhilta; as cited by Jakobovits 1973).
In reaching this conclusion, the fetus was designated a status that was below that designated for a human.
In essence, the
interpretation of the Torah led the Rabbis to come to the conclusion that human life doesn't begin at the fetal stage of development.

The Jewish Talmudic Law assumes
that the full title to life arises only at birth. According, the Talmud rules:
If a woman is in hard travail
{and her life cannot otherwise be saved}, one cuts up the child within her womb and extracts it member by member, because
her life comes before that of {the child}. But if the greater part {or the head} was delivered, one may not touch it, for
one may not set aside one person's life for the sake of another (Talmud, Tohoroth
II Oholoth 7:6; as cited by Jakobovits 1973).
This is the sole reference
to abortion in the principles of Jewish law & it's more explicit in emphasizing the belief that human life begins once the head of a full term baby emerges, because once the head emerges the infant is given the same
status of human life as the mother. Yet even in this context abortion is only considered acceptable if the birth of the child threatens the life of the mother.
The fetus must maintain some
form of perceived life, otherwise the destruction of the fetus would be acceptable under any circumstances, rather than only under the conditions of a mother's imitable health. Also, an argument has been
put forth that declares the child as being in "pursuit" of the mother's life; therefore, it may be destroyed as an "aggressor"
following the general principle of self-defense (Jakobovits 1973).
The need for this argument indicates that abortion may have been considered the destruction of a human life & this belief had to be reconciled w/the practice of abortion to save the mother's life. Generally, it can be viewed that the fetus is
granted some recognition of human life, but it doesn't equal that of the mother's & can be sacrificed if her life is in danger.
While the Talmud gives the
full status of humanness to a child at birth, the rabbinical writings have partially extended the acquisition of humanness
to the 13th postnatal day of life for full-term infants (Jakobovits 1973). This designation
is based on the viability of the infant, so the acquisition of humanness occurs later for premature infants, because the viability
of premature infants is still questionable after 13 days (Buss 1967).

Rabbinical writings have established
that viability of a child isn't fully established until it has passed the 13th day of its life. Extending from this idea is
that if two lives are at stake, the one that is certain & established, the mother, overrides the infant's life, which
is still in some doubt (O'Donovan 1975). Under these circumstances, it may be that the sacrifice
of the child must result to save the life of the mother (Jakobovits 1973).
This slight inequality in
value is too insignificant to warrant the deliberate sacrifice of the child for the sake of the mother if, without such sacrifice,
the child would survive; but it's a sufficient factor to tip the scales in favor of the mother if the alternative is the eventual
loss of both lives (Jakobovits 1973).
The sense that priority belongs
to the weaker & younger of the two claimants is balanced & in most peoples judgment overruled, by a strong sense that the self conscious humanity of the mother, who has already established pattern of relationships,
demands more attention than the yet unconscious humanity of the infant (O'Donovan 1975).
Some of the Christian interpretations
on abortion & thus indirectly when human life begins, are influenced by the writings of the Old Testament. Under Greek
influence the Septuagint version of Exodus 21:22-23 came to make a distinction between an unformed & a formed fetus,
the latter was considered an independent person (Buss 1967).
This Christian tradition that
disputes the Jewish view apparently resulted from a mistranslation in the Septuagint, where the Hebrew for "no harm follow"
was replaced with the Greek for "imperfectly formed" (Jakobovits 1973):
And if two men strive together
and smite a woman with child, and her child be born imperfectly formed, he shall be forced to pay a penalty: as the woman's husband shall lay upon him he shall pay with valuation. But if it be perfectly formed, he shall give life for life (Exodus 21:21-23;
as cited by Bonner 1985).

Tertullian & later church
fathers accepted this interpretation, distinguishing between an unformed & a formed fetus & branding the killing of the latter as
murder. The formed fetus was to be accorded full human status & this distinction was subsequently embodied in canon law
as well as in Justinian Law (Jakobovits 1973).
The distinction between a
formed & an unformed fetus, in Exodus, generated the question as to whether biblical writers understood parts of embryonic development & had designated a temporal period that marked the formation of a fetus.
While the Old Testament gives
several passages in which the growth of the unborn child is described, these passages are written in poetry & it can't
be determined whether they represent what the biblical writers actually thought was happening inside the womb (Rogerson, 1985). Job 10:10 states the rhetorical question:
"Didst thou not pour me out like milk and curdle me like cheese"? It continues: "Thou didst clothe me with skin and flesh
and knot me together with bones and sinews" (Rogerson 1985).
The reference to curdling
may reflect the fact that as a result of miscarriages & premature births, the biblical writers were aware of the difference between the fetus in an undeveloped state & in a state where the outward form of the child was already
complete.
Psalm 139: 13-16 stresses
again upon the growth of the child from something formless to something developed & complete, but there isn't a clear
distinction indicating when the fetal body obtains form & whether this acquisition of form designates an acquisition of
humanness (Rogerson 1985).
Yet there's reference to the
involvement of God in the process of growth & development of the embryo & some theologians argue that there is no
need to distinguish between a formed & an unformed fetus, because embryonic development is a divine process that shouldn't
be interrupted by human intervention (Rogerson 1985).

The involvement of God in
determining the beginning of human life is further expanded upon in the New Testament. The New Testament offers the belief that it's the love of God, which makes possible the Christian life.
The passage that comes nearest
to saying this explicitly is Galatians 2:20 "... the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the son of God, who loved me and gave himself to me" (Rogerson
1985). If the love of God marks the beginning of human life, then the point at which God extends his love to a fetus must be determined.
Does God's love extend to include potential life, or is there a point in development where the soul is infused with an embryo, which is the
point that God extends his love to mark the beginning of a Christian life?
While there are references
in the New Testament to God's love rejuvenating life, there isn't any mention of God's role in loving a developing fetus. i.e., in the New Testament it was
the fact that the Good Samaritan in the parable was "moved with compassion" that saved from certain death the man who had been robbed & beaten (Rogerson 1985).
In the parable of the Prodigal
Son it was the love of the father that make possible the renewed life of the son who had been "dead & is alive again"
(Luke 15:24; as cited by Rogerson, 1985). The very possibility of Christian life may depend
on the fact that God commends his love towards Christian followers "in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8;
as cited by Rogerson 1985).

It has been stated that it's
the love of God, which makes life in a relational sense possible, consequently Christians should resist any degradation of the life of a human being who is potentially a son or daughter of God (Rogerson, 1985).
... can we, at one
and the same time, be under the imperative of love, and be satisfied with a society that denies to the unborn the possibility of living (Athenag., Supplicatic; as cited by Rogerson 1985)?
Yet it's still unclear as
to whether denying the ability for God to love a fetus represents taking away a human life or a potential human life. Some Christian theologians argue that humanness is
acquired on a continuum & the state of humanness is reached thru the acts of birth & baptism. It's been argued, that
the true acquisition of humanness can't be obtained until after a baptism or at least birth, because miscarried fetal material
is usually not accorded the signs of recognition w/which some Christians note human birth & death: baptism, burial &
weeping (Rogerson 1985).
Tertullian, a prominent Christian
theologian, opposed contraception & early abortion, because he regarding them as "proleptic murder"- the prevention of
a birth that should occur (Buss 1967). In his Apology (A.D.
197) Tertullian denounces infanticide & abortion:
As regards infanticide, however
- although I grant that murder of a child, if it is your own, differs from killing somebody else! - it make no difference
whether it is done willfully or as part of a sacred rite. I will turn to you now as a nation.
How many of the crowd standing
round us, open -mouthed for Christian blood, how many of you, gentlemen, magistrates most just
and strict against us, shall I not prick in your inner consciousness as being the slayers of your own offspring?
There is, indeed, a difference
in the manner of death; but assuredly it is more cruel to drown an infant or expose it to cold
and starvation and the dogs (than to sacrifice it, as you allege that we do) - even an adult
would prefer to die by the sword.
But for us, to whom homicide
has been once for all forbidden, it is not permitted to break up even what has been conceived in
the womb, while the blood is still being drawn from the mother's body to make a new creature.
Prevention of birth is premature
murder, and it makes no difference whether it is a life already born that one snatches away or
a life that is coming to birth that one destroys. The future of man is a man already: the whole fruit is present in the seed
(Tertullian, Apology; as cited by Bonner 1985).

Tertullian observes that infanticide,
usually accomplished by exposure, was generally accepted in Roman society. He contends that it was only eventually banned due to the influence of Christianity. The notion that a
child, once born, was a human being enjoying the same right to life as an adult, was very far from being generally accepted by Roman society (Bonner 1985).
The survival of the child
during the first few days following birth depended to a great degree upon the decision of the father who thus retained, in
an attenuated form, something of the power of life & death enjoyed by the head of the family in early Roman society. This residual patriarchal power perished w/the
instillation of Christianity; but the notion that parents had a right over the fate of the newly born was retained (Bonner 1985).
While Tertullian regarded
infanticide & abortion as forms of homicide, indicating that he believed the fetus had acquired a status of humanness, he did recognize the need for abortions when necessary to save the life of the mother. So while Tertullian considered the embryo a human being, he
didn't designate it the same status of personhood as that held by the mother (Buss 1967).
Tertullian's views on abortion
were reinforced by St Basil the Great, writing in 374, when he declared that abortion was murder & that no distinction
between the formed & the unformed fetus was admissible in Christian morality (Buss 1967).
In 1140, when Gratian compiled the first collection of canon law that was accepted as authoritative within the church, he concluded that "abortion was homicide only when the fetus was formed." If the fetus
wasn't yet a formed human being, abortion wasn't homicide.
Throughout history, even the
Catholic Church has held varying declarations about the beginning of human life. For most of the history of the Catholic Church,
its thinkers viewed immediate animation / ensoulment as impossible & under the traditional Catholic doctrine, a male fetus became
animated - infused w/a soul at 40 days after conception & the female fetus became animated at 80 days after conception
(Tribe 1990).
In 1588, Pope Sixtus V mandated
that the penalty for abortion (or contraception) was excommunication from the Church. However,
his successor, Pope Gregory IX, returned the Church to the view that abortion of an unformed embryo wasn't homicide. This
was largely the view until 1869, when Pope Pius IX again declared that the punishment for abortion was excommunication. (Much of the support for this view was based on the idea that since we can't know with certainty the time at which human life begins, it should have protection from the earliest possible time, that of conception. This view doesn't actually insist that fertilization is the time when
human life begins. Rather, it's a statement that we don't know the time of ensoulment.
Pope Pius IX was also responsible for canonization of the notion that Mary was w/out sin & that the pope was infallible).

The current Catholic Church
doctrine maintains the belief that immediate animation, the instant at which the zygote is endowed w/ life including a soul from God, is concurrent with
the moment of fertilization (Shannon & Wolter 1990). Later Catholic theologians argued
that the rational human soul began at the time of conception, because such an infusion was a divine act.
This designating established
that ensoulment occurred at conception & the fetus should be designated a status independent of its parents. The fetus
was considered a separate entity; no longer an automatic derivative of its parents, hence it had obtained a status of humanness
as early as conception (Buss 1967).
Catholicism traditionally
forbade even early abortion in that it held that these acts interfered with the procreative purpose of sexual activity; but
a fetus wasn't considered a person early in pregnancy & early abortion wasn't deemed homicide (Tribe
1990).
By the Catholic doctrine,
firmly enunciated by Saint Augustine & other early Christian authorities, the unborn child was included among those condemned
to eternal perdition if he died un-baptized (DeMarco 1984). The movement to remove the distinction
between animate & inanimate fetuses from the Catholic doctrine was initiated by Thomas Fienus, who argued in 1620 that
the soul must be present immediately after conception in order to organize the material of the body (DeMarco
1984).
In the late 19th century,
following the discovery of fertilization, the debate about abortion within the church tipped in favor of its now familiar
position that human life begins at conception. This view was enhanced by the theological acceptance of the Immaculate Conception of Mary. In 1701 Pope Clement XI declared the Immaculate Conception a feast of universal obligation & in 1854 Pius IX incorporated into Catholic dogma the teaching that Mary was without sin for the moment of her conception
(Tribe 1990).

These beliefs didn't coincide w/the prior view that the fetus didn't acquire a soul until later in pregnancy, so the church had to unite
its doctrine so that the act of conception coincided w/the beginning of human life.
This belief that life begins at conception is maintained to the present day & it assumes that potential life, even in the earliest
stages of gestation, enjoys the same value as any existing life. Some Catholic theologians even reject medical indication, considering abortion the destruction of a potential human being & an outright refusal of a divine
gift from God (Buss 1967).
The current catholic view
of abortion concerning medical indication strays from that of Tertullian & Augustine, who accepted the use of abortion when the mother's life was threatened as the Church maintains the view that "two deaths are better than one murder" (Jakobovits 1973).
Debate over the beginning
of human life & abortion practices isn't limited to ancient civilizations or Judeo-Christian religions. That abortion was known, practiced & punished in the ancient Near
East is evident from the Middle Assyrian Laws, where we read:
If a woman
has had a miscarriage by her own act, when they have presented her (and)
convicted her, they shall impale her on stakes without burying her. If she died in having the miscarriage, they shall impale
her on stakes without burying her. If someone hid that woman knowing when she had the miscarriage
(without) informing (the
king).... (Meek, The Middle Assyrian Laws; as
cited by Rogerson 1985).
There may have been a political
aspect to the foundation of Assyrian Law. The state may have penalized abortion because it regarded it as destruction of human
life, but the state also needed to increase the number of healthy males so that there could be more warriors to carry out the state's military aims (Buss 1967).
Certain Persians, Hindu &
Buddhist texts applied ritual penalties to abortion on the level for those of homicide. Buddhism opposed the destruction of
any form of life.
Abortion violated the Buddhist ideal of self-sacrifice; its price is the woman's entrapment in the perpetual cycle of birth & rebirth (Tribe 1990) The Japanese Buddhists have a number of devotional practices that demonstrate their
opposition to abortion. As early as the Tokugawa period, an aborted fetus came to be known as Mizuko (water child or unseeing child).
It was believed that the soul of the aborted child is sent back to a children's limbo, whence it might later be reborn into the family that
earlier rejected it (Tribe 1990). Throughout the Vedas, the classical Hindu religious texts, pejorative
references to abortion abound. It has been called embryo murder & an act inimical to the very principle of creation. (Tribe 1990)
Islamic law regards the fetus
as a possible heir that can have his own heirs, but abortion is only punishable when it's done without the fathers consent
(Buss 1967). Arabs practiced certain forms of contraception, particularly withdrawal, during
the early Islamic era & Muhammad apparently condoned these acts (Tribe 1990). In 1937
the grand mufti of Egypt issued a fatwa (opinion) that declared birth control permissible.
In 1964, the grand mufti of
Jordan declared that it's permissible to seek an abortion as long as the embryo is "unformed," that is, within 120 days of
conception. Islam appears to espouse a view that strictly forbids abortion after the embryo has acquired a soul; something
said to take place any time between 40 & 120 days after conception (Tribe 1990).
The abortion laws in Britain
originally roughly coincided w/the belief of when human life begins, but gradually the multifaceted political aspects of abortion resulted in the abortion laws deviating
from the general opinion of when human life begins.
English common law located
the beginning of a human soul at "quickening," believed to be the stage when the soul enters the body & the embryo could be felt moving within the uterus, which occurs at about
4 months. Abortion laws became more stringent in 1803, when abortion was criminalized. Punishment for abortion before quickening
was set at exile, whipping, or imprisonment. Post-quickening abortion was punishable with death (Tribe
1990).
In 1838 the concept of quickening
was subtracted from British legal calculations on abortion. At the same time punishment by death was also eliminated. Under
the Offenses Against the Person Act of 1861 anyone procuring an "unlawful" abortion, including the woman herself, could be
punished w/3 years in prison.
In 1929 Parliament passed
Infant Life (Preservation) Act, which states that a termination of pregnancy, particularly
with a viable fetus, is unlawful except when proved to have been done in good faith to preserve the life of the woman (Tribe 1990). In 1966 the House of Commons voted to legalize
abortions performed for medical reasons including health.
The British Abortion Act of
1967 permits abortion until infant viability outside the womb, as long as two doctors' certify that the risk to the life or
mental or physical health of the woman, or to her existing children, would be greater if the pregnancy were to continue than
if it were to be terminated. The line of viability is provided by the still valid Infant Life (Preservation)
Act, which has been interpreted to restrict abortion after 28 weeks of gestational age (Tribe 1990).
The first soviet abortion
decree, issued in 1920, was cast solely in terms of public health. Calling abortion a necessary "evil," the proclamation alluded
to the pervasiveness of illegal abortion in a country torn by famine & civil war & suggested that abortion was a symptom
of the social illnesses that lingered from the Czarist regime & for which Socialism would soon find a cure (Tribe 1990). Those opposed to legalized abortion argued not in terms of the right to life of the unborn child
but in terms of the duty of the mother to perform her "natural" role in society, that of bearing children. The socialist state,
they believed, had a right to the "natural" increase in the labor force occasioned by this role (Tribe 1990).
In 1936 Joseph Stalin outlawed
abortion. He proclaimed that socialism had solved the underlying problems that had caused abortion & he exhorted soviet
women to fulfill their natural role & "give the nation a new group of heroes" (Tribe 1990). Two decades
later after Stalin's death, abortion was re-legalized, again for public health reasons (Tribe 1990).
The US doesn't have a set
definition of when human life begins. Many of the historical & contemporary abortion laws are based on either the opinion that life begins at conception, quickening, or the viability of the fetus outside the womb. Abortion was also permitted as
a matter of public health in America, in an attempt to prevent the loss of lives of women who would be injured when trying
to obtain illegal abortions.
In 1821 Connecticut first
enacted abortion laws though abortions of a non-quickened fetus were often permitted, or treated more leniently than others
& were generally permitted to save the life of the mother. The decision of Roe vs. Wade in 1973 was based on the survivability
of the fetus outside of the womb.
There are several different
contemporary cultural views regarding when a person acquires humanness. In rural Japan, personhood is obtained when an infant
utters first cry (Morowitz & Trefil 1992).
In Northern Ghana a child
is said to acquire humanness 7 days after birth, while for some Ayatal aborigines personhood isn't obtained until the child
is named which occurs 2 to 3 years after birth (Morowitz & Trefil 1992). For several
Native American tribes in the Mojave, human life begins for children who live long enough to be put to the mother's breast
(Morowitz & Trefil 1992).

Current Scientific Views of When Human Life Begins
Current perspectives on when
human life begins range from fertilization to gastrulation to birth & even after. Here is a brief examination of each
of the major perspectives w/arguments for & against each of the positions. Contemporary scientific literature proposes
a variety of answers to the question of when human life begins.
Metabolic View:
The metabolic view takes the
stance that a single developmental moment marking the beginning of human life doesn't exist. Both the sperm & egg cells
should individually be considered to be units of life in the same respect as any other single or multicellular organism.
Thus, neither
the union of two gametes nor any developmental point thereafter should be designated as the beginning of new life.
Another slightly different
though similar position maintains that the argument over when a new human life begins is irrelevant because the development
of a child is a smoothly continuous process. Discrete marking points such as the 14 day dividing line between a zygote &
an embryo are entirely artificial constructions of biologists & doctors in order to better categorize development for
academic purposes.
This position is supported
by recent research that has revealed that fertilization itself isn't even an instantaneous event, but rather a process that
takes 20-22 hours between the time the sperm penetrates the outermost layers of the egg & the formation of a diploid cell
(Kuhse 1988).
Genetic View:
The genetic view takes the
position that the creation of a genetically unique individual is the moment at which life begins. This event is often described
as taking place at fertilization, thus fertilization marks the beginning of human life.
During this developmental
event, the genes originating from two sources combine to form a single individual w/a different & unique set of genes.
One of the most popular arguments for fertilization as the beginning of human life is that at fertilization a new combination
of genetic material is created for the first time; thus, the zygote is an individual, unique from all others.

Although the opinion that
life begins at fertilization is the most popular view among the public, many scientists no longer support this position, as
an increasing number of scientific discoveries seem to contradict it. One such discovery in the last twenty years is that
research has shown that there is no "moment of fertilization" at all. Scientists now choose to view fertilization as a process
that occurs over a period of 12-24 hours. After sperm are released they must remain in the female reproductive tract for seven
hours before they are capable of fertilizing the egg. Approximately ten hours are required for the sperm to travel up to the
fallopian tube where they find the egg. The meeting of the egg and the sperm itself is not even an instantaneous process,
but rather a complex biochemical interaction through which the sperm ultimately reaches the inner portion of the egg. Following
fertilization, the chromosomes contained within the sperm and the chromosomes of the egg meet to form a diploid organism,
now called a zygote, over a period of 24 hours. (Shannon and Wolter 1990). Thus, even if one were to argue that life begins
at fertilization, fertilization is not a moment, but rather a continuous process lasting 12-24 hours, with an additional 24
hours required to complete the formation of a diploid individual.
The most popular argument
against the idea that life begins at the moment of fertilization has been dubbed the "twinning argument." The main point of
this argument is that although a zygote is genetically unique
from its parents from the moment a diploid organism is formed; it is possible for that zygote to split into two or more zygotes
up until 14 or 15 days after fertilization. Even though the chances of twinning are not very great, as long as there is the
potential for it to occur the zygote has not completed the process of individuation and is not an ontological individual.
Proponents of this view often
propose the following hypothetical situation: Suppose that an egg is fertilized. At that moment a new life begins; the zygote
gains a "soul," in the Catholic line of thought, or "personhood" in a secular line of thought. Then suppose that the zygote
splits to form twins. Does the soul of the zygote split as well? No, this is impossible. Yet no one would argue that twins
share the same "soul" or the same "personhood." Thus, supporters of this view maintain that the quality of "soul" or "personhood"
must be conferred after there is no longer any potential for twinning. (Shannon and Wolter 1990)
The argument that human life
begins at the moment that chromosomes of the sperm meet the chromosomes of the egg to form a genetically unique individual
is also endangered by the twinning argument because genetic uniqueness is not a requirement for an individual human life.
"Genetic uniqueness" can be shared by multiple individuals, particularly indentical twins. Thus, this argument continues,
the moment at which a unique individual human forms is the not the moment when its genetic code is determined, but rather
the moment when the zygote can no longer split into multiple individuals.
In addition to twinning, there
are other complexities that further confound the idea of the moment of conception. Just as it possible for a zygote to form
two or more individuals before it is implanted in the uterus, it is also possible for it to not continue to develop at all,
but rather just become a part of the placenta. (Shannon and Wolter 1990). It is estimated that more the 50% of the fertilized
eggs abort spontaneously and never become children (see Gilbert 2003). Or, if the zygote splits into multiple zygotes, it
is also possible for these to recombine before implantation. All of these possibilities are examples of the ways in which
the individuation of the zygote is incomplete until it has been implanted in the uterus.

Embryological View:
In contrast to the genetic
view, the embryological view states that human life originates not at fertilization but rather at gastrulation. Human embryos
are capable of splitting into identical twins as late as 12 days after fertilization resulting in the development of separate individuals
with unique personalities & different souls, according to the religious view.
Therefore, properties governing
individuality aren't set until after gastrulation. This view is endorsed by a host of contemporary scientists such as Renfree
(1982), C. Grobstein (1988) & McLaren. This view of
when life begins has also been adopted as the official position of the British government. The implications of a belief in
this view include giving support to controversial forms of contraception including the "morning after" pill & contragestational
agents as long as they are administered during the first two weeks of pregnancy.
One of the most popular positions
among philosophers is the perspective that life begins at the point of gastrulation, that point at which the zygote is an
ontological individual & can no longer become two individuals. Gastrulation commences at the beginning of the third week
of pregnancy, when the zygote, now known as an embryo is implanted into the uterus of the mother. The cells are now differentiated
into 3 categories that will give rise to the different types of body tissue. (Shannon & Wolter
1990). After gastrulation the zygote is destined to form no more than one human being.
The philosophers who support
this position argue that there exists a difference between a human individual & a human person. A zygote is both human
& numerically single & thus a human individual. However, because individuality isn't certain until implantation is
complete & because individuality is a necessary condition of personhood, the zygote isn't yet a human person. (Ford 1988; Shannon & Wolter 1990; McCormick 1991).
Catholic scholars Shannon
& Wolter (1990) describe this eloquently saying, "An individual isn't an individual
& therefore not a person, until the process of restriction is complete & determination of particular cells has occurred.
Then & only then, it's clear that another individual can't come from the cells of this embryo."
Some supporters of the fertilization
position find fault in this argument by claiming that the potential of twinning is a technicality & not strong enough
to support the claim that human life doesn't begin until gastrulation. Alan Holland puts forth the view that just because
a zygote has the possibility to divide into multiple individuals doesn't mean that it isn't an individual before it divides.
As an analogy,
he presents the case of the worm that is clearly a single individual worm until it is cut into two when it becomes two individual
worms. (Holland 1990).
Some would also argue that
in the discussion of when human life begins the question of whether a zygote will eventually become one individual or multiple
individuals is irrelevant. The key point is that at least one human life may begin as the result of the zygote & thus
human life began at the creation of the zygote, 14 days before gastrulation.

Neurological view:
Although most cultures identify
the qualities of humanity as different from other living organisms, there's also a universal view that all forms of life on
earth are finite. Implicit in the later view is the reality that all life has both a beginning & an end, usually identified
as some form of death.
The debate surrounding the
exact moment marking the beginning of a human life contrasts the certainty & consistency w/which the instant of death
is described. Contemporary American (& Japanese) society defines death as the loss of
the pattern produced by a cerebral electroencephalogram (EEG).
If life & death are based
upon the same standard of measurement, then the beginning of human life should be recognized as the time when a fetus acquires a recognizable EEG pattern. This acquisition occurs approximately 24 - 27 weeks after the conception of the fetus & is the basis for
the neurological view of the beginning of human life.
These principles of the neurological
view of the beginning of human life are presented in The Facts of Life, a book written by Harold Morowitz & James
Trefil in 1992 concerning the abortion controversy. An electroencephalogram (EEG) is a simple medical procedure in which electrodes
are attached to different locations on a patient's head & the voltage difference over time is measured between the two
points.
The voltage data is plotted
against time to produce "brain waves" with up & down voltage oscillations that are representative of the organized electrical
activity of the brain (Morowitz & Trefil 1992). Medical professionals use a patient's
EEG pattern to identify a broad spectrum of mental states. Although EEGs are often used as a diagnostic tool, the exact mechanism
behind how an EEG pattern is linked to an individual's cerebral neuron activity remains a mystery (Morowitz
and Trefil 1992).

Despite lacking a precise
explanation for the connection between the EEG & neural activity, there's a strong argument that the unique & highly
recognizable EEG pattern produced by a mature brain is a defining characteristic of humanity (Morowitz
& Trefil 1992). Therefore, the moment that a developing fetus first exhibits an EEG pattern consistent w/that of
a mature brain is indicative of the beginning of human life. It's from this point & onward during development that the
fetus is capable of the type of mental activity associated w/humanity (Morowitz & Trefil 1992).
Because the state of modern
technology still prohibits EEGs in utero, brain activity data for humans at various stages of development has been
gathered using premature infants. Observations to date have led to the conclusion that 25 weeks of gestation is required for
the formation of synapses needed for recognizable neural activity.
At this point in development,
the recognizable signals exist only as intermittent bursts that interrupt periods of random activity (Morowitz
& Trefil 1992). This conclusion is summarized by Donald Scott who in his book Understanding
the EEG wrote, "Attempts have been made to record cerebral activity of premature infants & they've
succeeded (only) if the gestational age was 25 weeks or more (Morowitz
& Trefil 1992)."
Such claims, as well as arguments
that endorse an opposite argument, are for many the foundation for any dispute over defining the inception of human life.
Consequently, the principles of the neurological view are tenets in the debate over another controversial subject: abortion.
Champions for a fetus's right
to life often claim that the brain of a human fetus begins to show electrical activity at a remarkably early age. A key moment
in the history of the abortion debate is the production & release of "The Silent Scream," an influential abortion film
that graphically depicts the fetal response to its termination.
The video accompanies the
abortion of a 12-week-old fetus w/the words "Now this little person at 12 weeks is a fully formed absolutely identifiable
human being. He has had brain waves for at least 6 weeks..." (Morowitz & Trefil 1992).
Although such arguments appeal to both the emotion by depicting an infant, though still developing, in a moment of pain & crisis & the intellect by presenting a scientific
line of reasoning, the position presented by the film conflicts widely accepted developmental theory.

For instance, the film contends
that a fetus has brain waves after 12 weeks & suggest, even in the title "The Silent Scream," that it reacts to its termination
w/fear & pain. These contentions contradict scientific evidence that indicates neural connections in the cerebral cortex have yet to develop in a 12-week-old fetus.
Lacking these basic neural
networks, the developing fetus is incapable of feeling the emotions recognized as fear or pain (Morowitz & Trefil 1992). The film's position
is further contrasted by evidence that suggests a 12-week-old fetus isn't yet capable to take direct actions in response to a thought. The developing fetus is therefore incapable of recognizing potential danger & unable to either be fearful of it or actively evade it thru movement or any other willful activity (Morowitz & Trefil
1992).
(For information concerning how photographs of the embryo are often
misrepresented on anti-abortion literature & websites, see Images of Embryos Used by Anti-Abortion Activists.)
In addition to presenting
25 weeks as a critical developmental landmark, other proponents of the neurological view believe that events of the 8th week of human gestation represent the key moments marking the beginning of human life.
Contemporary philosophical
arguments for designating week 8 as the beginning of human life proceed in accordance w/the following format: humanness requires
rational thought & rational thought requires a brain & a nervous system. Philosophers who present such arguments contest that an embryo isn't a human being
until it has a rudimentary nervous system.
At week 8, the embryo has
completed organogenesis, meaning it has simple, undeveloped versions of all the basic organ systems, including the nervous
system (Shannon & Wolter 1990) Philosophers who subscribe
to this perspective pay close attention to the progressively increasing complexity of the nervous system or the first weeks
& months of pregnancy.
At week 5 the first neurons
begin to appear, at week 6 "the first synapses ... can be recognized," & at 7.5 weeks the embryo displays its first reflexes in response to stimulus. (Shannon
& Wolter 1990). Thus around week 8 the embryo has a basic 3 neuron circuit, the foundation of a nervous system
necessary for rational thought. (Shannon and Wolter 1990).

It should come as no surprise
that this contemporary philosophical debate also consists of a second argument, which is in direct opposition to the aforementioned
position. There are philosophers who believe that the capacity for rational thought is indeed a prerequisite of humanness, but that an 8-week-old embryo doesn't have the capacity for rational thought.
At 8 weeks an embryo displays
reflexes that are the result of its budding nervous system, but it doesn't yet have the structures necessary to engage in
true rational activity in contrast to mere reflex motivated movement. (Shannon and Wolter, 1990)
A 3rd
developmental landmark presented by proponents of the neurological view occurs at 20 weeks. Some advocates of the philosophy
that a prerequisite for humanness is the capacity for rational thought believe that the existence of a primitive nervous system after 8 weeks, w/the ability to respond by reflex to stimulation, doesn't
amount to rational thought.
The embryological landmark
of 20 weeks marks the completion of the development of the thalamus, a region of the brain, which enables the integration
of the nervous system. Philosophers who support this view therefore believe that only after 20 weeks of gestation can the embryo be said to have the capacity for rational thought.
The precept at the heart of
the neurological view of the beginning of human life is the significant development of neural pathways that are critical for
characteristic human brain activity. The formation of these neural connections is often viewed to culminate in the acquisition of humanness, a stage during the 3rd trimester of human gestation when the
overwhelming majority of neural pathways in the cerebral cortex are established (Morowitz &
Trefil 1992).
The contemporary concept of
the acquisition of humanness was developed & elaborated during the later half of the 20th century by theological &
biological leaders who emphasized the importance of the cerebral cortex in characterizing humanness. The Jesuit scholar & anthropologist scientist Pierre Teilhard de
Chardin presented his belief that the transcendence of humanity was dependant upon the successful maturation of the cerebral cortex.
Bernard Haring, a permanent
Catholic theologian of the 1970's argued that individuality & the uniqueness of personal characteristics & activities
originated from the cerebral cortex. A decade later, the anatomist Paul Glees argued "the (cerebral
cortex) represents the signature of a genetically unique person" (Morowitz & Trefil
1992)
The contemporary idea of the
acquisition of humanness is based on the contemporary theories of developmental embryology. Cerebral nerve cells accumulate
in number & continually differentiate thru the end of the 2nd trimester of human pregnancy (Morowitz
& Trefil 1992).
However, it isn't until the
7th month of gestation that a significant number of connections between the newly amassed neurons begin to take form. It's only after the neurons are linked via synapse connections that the fetus is thought to acquire humanness.
Just as a pile of unconnected
microchips is incapable of functioning & is therefore not called a computer, the unconnected
neurons of the pre 24-week fetal brain lack the capacity to function, thus the developing fetus has yet to acquire humanness
(Morowitz and Trefil 1992).

Ecological / Technological view:
Advocates of the neurological
view contend that human life begins when a developing fetus acquires humanness, a point designated by brain activity that
can be described as characteristically human.
But if this developing fetus
is separated from its mother at an early stage, regardless of the state of neural development, the fetus will be unable to sustain life on its own. The total dependence of the developing fetus for the majority of gestation catalyzed the formation of another view of when human life begins.
The ecological / technological
view of when human life begins designates this point when an individual can exist separately from the environment in which
it was dependent for development (i.e., its mother's womb).
Under most circumstances,
the limiting factor for human viability is not the development of neural connections but the maturation of the lungs. However, advances in medical science permit a premature fetus to breathe after only 25 weeks
of gestation, a stage in its development prior to the complete formation of functioning lungs (Gilbert
2002).
Legislation using the ecological
/ technological view of when human life begins includes decrees of when a fetus can legally be aborted, mandating that after
a fetus is determined to be independent its life can no longer be terminated (Gilbert 2002).

Self-Consciosness: Contemporary Philosophical Stands on When Human Life Begins
There are philosophers, although
not very many, who would dare to make the stance that a fetus nor an infant is a human being because it doesn't possess a
consciousness of itself. This of course means that neither a zygote nor an embryo is a person either.
Michael Tooley is one of these
philosophers who describes his perspective in the article "Abortion & Infanticide." Essentially he argues that abortion
& infanticide are really no different, if you support one, then you must support the other. His argument is that in order to claim that an adult has the right to live & an embryo or a fetus doesn't,
one must be able to identify some moment where the moral status of the organism in question changes.
There's nothing inherent about
birth that it should automatically be hailed as this defining moment. A more justified moment, Tooley argues, is the moment at which the human child gains consciousness. At this moment, not at birth, should the
child be considered a full fledged person, entitled to all the rights, particularly the right to life, that human adults are
entitled to (Tooley 1999).
The main problem that most
people find with this position on when human life begins is that it condones infanticide, arguing that infants don't have
the same right to life as adult humans do. Must people reject this view of when life begins, finding it impossible to support a view that logically leads to the conclusion that infanticide is acceptable.
Tooley, however,
argues that this rejection of his perspective is based on a purely emotional response to the idea of infanticide & not on logic or reasoning.
Historically, the question
of when human life begins was answered by a progression that was initiated by edicts on abortion which were governed by the
popular notions of moral acceptability. These popular notions were decrees put forth by God, delivered to the populous thru religious texts.
Modern technological innovations
of the 20th century have reversed the order of this progression; contemporary scholars often address the question of when
human life begins by first evaluating scientific data. The conclusions reached via the scientific method become the tools
used to create popular standards of moral acceptability.
These contemporary
notions of moral acceptability then provide the framework for the modern abortion debate.
The temporal divergence between
the progressions of thought leading to answers of when human life begins reveals a shift in the source of knowledge that is used to answer one of humanity's
most puzzling questions. Prior to the twentieth century, God was humanity's source of absolute knowledge.
In recent years, however,
scholars have terminated the utility of God's omniscience & in its place have raised science & technology as their
source of absolute knowledge. This shift is evidence for, perhaps, the most determinant factor of any argument for when human
life begins. The reasons governing the variation in both historical & modern views of when life begins is largely due
to a variation in moral standards.
However, understanding the basis for societal moral standards appears to be the key to discerning how to approach the question of when human life
begins. Science hasn't been able to give a definitive answer to this question. One opinion is that the acquisition of humanness is a gradual phenomenon, rather than one that occurs at any particular moment.
If one doesn't believe in a "soul," then one need not believe in a moment of ensoulment. The moments of fertilization, gastrulation, neurulation & birth, are then milestones in the
gradual acquisition of what it is to be human.
While one may
have a particular belief in when the embryo becomes human, it is difficult to justify such a belief solely by science.


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Incapable of Love? Why does this happen?
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
Description
The person encountering the
stress doesn't have to be the one who was threatened directly. This stress can also be experienced by witnesses to a traumatic incident.
- Examples of life-threatening traumas that can cause post-traumatic stress include natural disasters, serious accidents & acts of violence.
- The disorder tends to be more severe when the stressor involves deliberate human malice as opposed to a "twist
of fate".
- Symptoms such as flashbacks must last for at least a month after a traumatic event for a diagnosis of PTSD to be made.
- Trauma debriefing with a qualified professional 24 to 72 hours after a traumatic event can help prevent the onset of PTSD.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) arises as an immediate, delayed &/or protracted response to a traumatic or stressful event of an exceptionally threatening or catastrophic nature.
These include:
- natural disasters
- acts of terrorism such as bomb blasts
- hijackings
- physical assault such as rape
The trauma involves direct personal experience of an event that involves actual or threatened death or serious injury, or a threat to
one's physical integrity, or witnessing an event that involves death, injury, or a threat to the physical integrity of another person.
Stressors that might trigger PTSD must be outside the range of typical human
experience. Problems such as grieving the loss of a loved one or marital conflict aren't considered severe enough to lead to PTSD. People who have PTSD are those who:
- Have experienced, witnessed or were confronted w/a traumatic event that involved the threat of death or serious
injury to themselves or others, causing them to respond w/ intense fear, helplessness or horror.
- Persistently re-experience the event thru intrusive thoughts, dreams, acting or feeling as if the event were
reoccurring &/or intense distress & emotion when exposed to cues that symbolize or resemble the event.
- Avoid stimuli associated with the event & attempt to numb their general responsiveness
by avoiding thoughts, feelings, conversation, activities, places or people associated w/the trauma.
- An inability to recall important aspects of the trauma & loss of interest in participating in activities.
- Feel detached from others, have a restricted range of emotions & are often unable to have loving relationships.
- Feel little hope for their future.
- Experience symptoms of increased emotional stimulation such as difficulty sleeping, irritability or angry outbursts, difficulty concentrating, increased vigilance & exaggerated or startled responses.
The above-mentioned disturbances will continue for at least a month &
cause significant distress or impairment in social, occupational or other important areas of functioning.
In general, people w/PTSD respond to situations more intensely than those
who don't have the disorder. Whereas others may respond w/denial, a person w/PTSD will respond by withdrawing & may turn to alcohol, drugs or suicide.
Unable to work thru their feelings, they become incapable of love & work. These feelings of distress may lead to anxiety disorders such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, panic disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, acute stress disorder & depression.
Cause
The exact cause of PTSD remains unknown. However, it's agreed
that a defining factor is that a person w/PTSD must have experienced a profoundly distressing event, such as a natural disaster, assault, terrorism or serious accident.
The disorder tends to be more severe when the stressor involves
deliberate human malice as opposed to a "twist of fate" or bad luck. But because not all people who experience a serious stressor
develop PTSD, other variables such as preceding trauma & social support may play a role in development of the disorder.
Symptoms
The symptoms of PTSD fall into three categories:
- Intrusion
- Avoidance
- Hyperarousal
Intrusion
Memories of the trauma can recur unexpectedly & episodes called "flashbacks" intrude into their current lives. This happens in sudden, vivid
memories accompanied by painful emotions that hold the victim’s attention completely. The flashback may be so strong that individuals almost feel as if they're
experiencing the trauma again or seeing it unfold before their eyes. They may also have nightmares of the traumatic incident.
Avoidance
Avoidance symptoms often affect relationships w/others: the person with PTSD often avoids close emotional ties w/family, colleagues & friends. At first, the person feels emotionally numb & can complete only routine, mechanical activities.
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Later, when re-experiencing the event, the individual may alternate
between the flood of emotions caused by re-experiencing the trauma & the inability to feel or express emotions at all.
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The person with PTSD avoids situations or activities that are reminders of the original traumatic event because such exposure may cause symptoms
to worsen.
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Depression is a common product of the inability to resolve painful feelings. Some people also feel feeling guilty because they survived a disaster while others - particularly if these were friends or family - didn't.
Hyperarousal
PTSD can cause its sufferers to act as if they're constantly threatened by the trauma that caused their illness.
CourseThere are usually 3 phases of response to traumatic stress:
Phase One – Impact Phase (first few days after the trauma)
Responses include:
Phase Two – Recoil
Phase (lasts 2 to 4 weeks)
Phase Three – Reorganization Phase
- Symptoms subside
- Social & occupational functioning improve
The above is the normal course after
having experienced a trauma. Should the symptoms of phase 1 & 2 persist beyond 4 to 6 weeks, then the individual is more
than likely experiencing Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder.
PTSD usually appears within 3 months of the trauma, but sometimes may appear later.
Risk factorsIt's impossible to predict who will get PTSD; however, several factors
are known to contribute to the development of the condition. These include, but are not limited to:
- Personal identification of the event, thru both witnessing
a traumatic event or personally experiencing it.
- Witnessing a traumatic occurrence in which you know the victim
- Lack of knowledge of the event ahead of time
- The severity & intensity of the event
- Cumulative exposure to traumatic events
- Chronic exposure to traumatic incidents
- Pre-existing PTSD or other psychiatric disorder
- Feelings of helplessness
Research suggests that children
are more susceptible to PTSD than adults when exposed to a similar stressor.
People who have had prior
psychiatric treatment are more vulnerable to PTSD. This is thought to be true because their previous illness reflects greater
sensitivity to stress.
When to see a doctorIt's strongly recommended that if you've experienced a traumatic event,
you receive trauma counselling (debriefing) within 24 to 72 hours after the event by a suitably trained mental
health professional. Trauma debriefing usually involves short-term therapy (2 to 6 sessions) & can prevent the development of PTSD.
Should traumatic stress symptoms
persist beyond 4 to 6 weeks, therapy is indicated & medication may be necessary.
DiagnosisThe essential feature of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is the development
of characteristic symptoms following exposure to an extreme traumatic stress.
The following criteria are
indicated in the Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV) as the diagnostic criteria for PTSD:
A. The person has been exposed
to a traumatic event in which both of the following were present:
(1)The person experienced,
witnessed or was confronted w/an event or events that involved actual or threatened death or serious injury, or a threat to
the physical integrity of self or others.
(2)The person’s response
involved intense fear, helplessness or horror. In children, this may be expressed instead by disorganized or agitated behavior.
B. The traumatic event is
persistently re-experienced in one or more of the following ways:
(1) Recurrent & intrusive
distressing recollections of the event, including images, thoughts, or perceptions. In young children, repetitive play may
occur in which themes or aspects of the trauma are expressed.
(2) Recurrent distressing
dreams of the event. In children, there may be frightening dreams without recognizable content.
(3) Acting or feeling as if
the traumatic event were recurring (includes a sense of reliving the experience, illusions, hallucinations
& dissociative flashback episodes, including those that occur on awakening or when intoxicated). In young children,
trauma-specific re-enactment may occur.
(4) Intense psychological
distress at exposure to internal or external cues that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic event.
(5) Physiological reactivity
on exposure to internal or external cues that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic event.
C. Persistent avoidance of
stimuli associated w/the trauma & numbing of general responsiveness (not present before the trauma), as indicated by 3 or more of the following:
(1) Efforts to avoid thoughts,
feelings or conversations associated with the trauma.
(2) Efforts to avoid activities,
places or people that arouse recollections of the trauma.
(3) Inability to recall an
important aspect of the trauma.
(4) Markedly diminished interest
or participation in significant activities.
(5) Feeling of detachment
or estrangement from others.
(6) Inability to feel certain
emotions (e.g. unable to have loving feelings).
(7) Sense of a foreshortened
future (e.g. doesn't expect to have a career, marriage, children or a normal life span).
D. Persistent symptoms of
increased arousal (not present before the trauma), as indicate by two or more of the following:
(1) difficulty falling or
staying asleep
(2) irritability or outbursts of anger
(3) difficulty concentrating
(4) hypervigilance
(5) exaggerated startle responses.
E. Duration of the disturbance
(symptoms in Criteria B, C, D) is more than one month.
F. The disturbance causes
clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational or other important areas of functioning.
Acute PTSD: if duration of
symptoms is less than 3 months.
Chronic PTSD: if duration
of symptoms is 3 months or more.
PTSD with delayed onset: if onset of symptoms is at least 6
months after the trauma.
TreatmentNot everyone who experiences trauma requires treatment. Some recover with the help of family, friends or clergy. But many do need professional treatment to recover
from the psychological damage that can result from experiencing, witnessing or participating in an overwhelmingly traumatic
event.
If you have suffered a trauma & recognize that you have symptoms of PTSD, then the following practical guideline may be helpful:
- Remove yourself from exposure to further trauma if possible i.e. stabilize your situation.
- Find a therapist who has experience in treating PTSD &
preferably, who is knowledgeable about the kind of trauma you have experienced. Be truthful w/your therapist about your experience & symptoms. If you feel that the therapist isn't
right for you, you have the right to one that is. You also have the right to a second opinion.
- Consult a psychiatrist to determine if you would benefit from
medication.
- Have a medical doctor examine you for any additional medical
problems.
- Avoid unhealthy behavior & coping addictions, drug &
non-drug alike.
- Find a support group for people w/PTSD.
- Remove yourself from people & situations that aren't supportive.
- Learn about PTSD from reading about it & talking to health
professionals & other people who have had the condition.
Removing yourself from exposure
to further trauma may not be as simple as it sounds - i.e., if you are a policeman / woman or a paramedic. Regular trauma debriefing by a professional qualified to do so should prevent the development of PTSD. Every time a trauma has been witnessed, debriefing should be helpful & useful.
Medication
The most common type of medication
prescribed for PTSD is anti-depressants. Antidepressant medications, such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors or SSRI’s
may be particularly helpful in treating the core symptoms of PTSD - especially intrusive symptoms & are also associated
w/improvements in overall functioning.
Sertraline (Zoloft) & paroxetine (Aropax) are licensed for the treatment of PTSD in
some countries. Because they're probably not helpful & because of the risk of addiction, benzodiazepines (also known as ‘traquilizers’), should be avoided or used very judiciously. A psychiatrist should
carefully monitor medication. Medication can take a few weeks to take effect & must not be stopped suddenly.
Medication is often used in
conjunction with therapy. The relief from symptoms that medication provides allows most patients to participate more effectively
in psychotherapy when their condition may otherwise prohibit it.
Therapy
Psychiatrists & other
mental health professionals also use a variety of effective therapeutic methods to help people w/PTSD work thru their trauma & pain. Behavior therapy focuses on correcting the painful & intrusive patterns of behavior & thought by teaching
relaxation techniques & examining (& challenging) the mental processes that are
causing the problem.
Psychotherapy focuses on helping
the individual examine personal values & how behavior & experience during the traumatic event affected them. Family
therapy may also be recommended to assist the family of an individual who is experiencing post-traumatic stress.
Discussion groups or peer-counselling
groups encourage survivors of similar traumatic events to share their experiences & reactions to them. Group members help
one another realize that many people would have done the same thing & felt the same emotions.
Can PTSD be prevented?There is some preliminary evidence to suggest that intervening with
a medication within hours of a traumatic event may prevent the onset of PTSD, but further work in this area is needed.
Children & Trauma
Even though young children
may not fully understand the context of what's happening to them & around them, they're nonetheless sensitive to changes
in their world. They respond to change in significant people such as parents; to changes in their environment; to changes
in routine; & to changes in emotional climate.
Trauma, if untreated, can
have lasting effects on the child’s personality development. While the child may not have the cognitive capacity to
understand or remember an incident, the trauma may still have an impact on him or her.
Children, despite their resilience,
may not necessarily get over a trauma without some form of debriefing. There is a discrepancy between the adult’s perception of the child’s vulnerability
& the child’s report of their own reactions. Adults have a co-existing need to recognize & deny the child’s
symptoms of anguish & pain. A lack of observable behavior or symptoms doesn't mean that the child has come to terms with
the trauma.
When a child has experienced
a traumatic event, it's important to allow him or her to talk about what happened, to "speak about the unspeakable". Parents often need support too & it's therefore recommended that both child & parents seek professional help.
Reviewed by Dr Soraya Seedat, psychiatrist and co-director: MRC Unit on Anxiety Disorders.
MDMA in the Treatment of Eating Disorders Related to Sexual
Trauma Anonymous
I am
writing to tell your organization that I strongly support careful (not abusive) clinical use of MDMA.
I am a 41 year old professional
woman who has been struggling with a severe eating disorder (bulimia) for over 25 years. The eating disorder began to manifest at age 9 following sexual & abandonment trauma. It's hard to describe the extent to which my inner struggle with pain, self hatred & feelings of purposelessness have robbed me of living for all of these years.
I have been in therapy off
& on since age 19, with little to no effect. Therapy was better than nothing... but only just. Prozac & similar drugs
would elevate my mood initially, then induce a dulled effect that felt unreal. Prozac, Zoloft, etc. did not help the eating
disorder. I remained incapable of loving myself or opening to others. My life was lost to
black, contracted cycles of bingeing & purging.
Healing requires some inner
kernel of self love. I knew this intellectually (& was brought to this recognition by various
therapists) but couldn't find that space inside myself. I attempted suicide twice during my adult years, the second
time seriously.
I'm afraid to say how or when
it came about -- I'd be willing to bet our government is keeping very close tabs on your organization -- but I came under
the care of a wonderful Jungian analyst following my second suicide attempt.
After a year of work with
him, he suggested use of MDMA in a contained, safe, retreat setting. Because of my upbringing & professional position,
I had reservations about doing "drugs". Finally, after a further desperate cycle with the bulimia, I asked to try it.
I am so feeling grateful, so thankful, that I took the risk. It's impossible to overstate how the work I did with this person using the MDMA profoundly
changed my life. I was able for the first time to feel a space of love for myself. As my work with the analyst continued,
I began to open more towards others & could tolerate work in a group setting (I had difficulty
tolerating group work prior to the MDMA). In all, I did roughly 6 sessions using the substance over a two year period.
I still struggle with the
eating disorder, but I have a sense of hope that was completely absent prior to the MDMA sessions. Through meditation, I am now capable of finding the self love that
is so crucial for healing. It isn't an overstatement to say that the sessions I did with the MDMA, in the hands of a skillful
analyst, saved my life.
Tragically, the courageous
individual who so helped me paid a high price for his work. He was forced to relinquish his state license (not in connection with his work with me) & left the country to India for several months to re-group. He
is now back & temporarily living in a city in the Southeast. He is barred from practice in one state only, but thinks
he probably will not return to analysis. He is not yet sure of his direction. I am frustrated & heartbroken that the work
that made my "opening" possible can't be available to others.
I think that MDMA is a life-saving
therapeutic tool for people such as myself, who are caught in addiction patterns that attempt to replicate nurturing &
feeding of the self. Many addicts are simply incapable of self love. MDMA allows one to
find this space inside the self. I found that it allowed me to release the defenses & barriers that blocked me from connecting
with & loving myself and others.
I do think, however, that
use of MDMA must be careful & coupled with skillful analysis. It would be easy to abuse this substance in the wrong hands.
In my case, it was helpful to prepare for the sessions with disciplined ritual work. It was important for me to view the substance as sacred & not for recreational abuse.
The analyst required that
I commit to a full weekend of ritual work to prepare for the work with the MDMA. A typical schedule, for example, would be
a Friday evening at the "retreat" location of meditation, quiet dinner & a discussion of intentions & issues for focus
during the work. On Saturday morning, we would continue with a morning of silence/meditation & prayer, break with a midday
lunch, ritual work such as prayer flags, meditative walks & collecting flowers or things from nature to decorate the "altar".
We would begin the work at
dusk with an intention circle. After the first two sessions, I worked in small groups (2 to 4 other
people). The therapist did not use the MDMA, but worked with me as a guide through the issues I needed to explore.
Other techniques used by the therapist included drumming, breath work (during the MDMA session
to deepen the experience/reach blocked areas) & body work, including traction & Trager method massage (profoundly moving & extremely helpful in my case). On Sunday morning following the work, we journaled & discussed the experience. In addition, careful
music choices were an important part of the experience (expansive, organic soundscapes).
The analyst came to feelings of grief - grieving when a former patient discussed the work with a new therapist, who either reported or persuaded the patient to report the
work to an oversight entity of some kind. I worked with the patient in group & observed that the patient was somewhat
infatuated with the analyst.
Amateur speculation here,
but I suspect that she projected quite a bit on to the analyst (I saw that happening) &
subsequently "punished" him for not returning her affection.
Other than the obvious, limitations
of the work include expense (weekend is a big time commitment for a therapist) & setting.
To be as effective as possible, the work really requires a retreat location that is suited to deep, meditative inner work.
It was my sense that the analyst has to be careful to ensure the serious nature of the work, & not to let patients pressure
him/her into overuse, or to relax the ritual & sacred character of the work.
I wish to add that perhaps
the single most important aspect of the work with the MDMA is that I opened sufficiently to let myself be held & receive nourishment from an archetype
of the "Mother", i.e. a woman who understood the process & acted as an assistant during several of the sessions.
She was available to literally
just hold me (if I wanted holding at any point) during the sessions. The holding was very
safe; it didn't have either a "hungry mother", a sexual, or a forced, absent quality to it (three
very different but damaging things to kids).
I would not have been able
to tolerate the holding without the MDMA, yet it was the single most important element moving me towards healing. I sobbed for many, many hours. The irony is that people who grow up with emotionally absent
mothers/trauma issues desperately crave to be filled by the "Mother", but cannot tolerate/have difficulty allowing themselves
to receive love from others.
The experience demonstrated
very clearly to me the relationship between my addictions & hunger for the Mother. During the sessions, I was able to
see & (in wonderment) release my "defendedness". The MDMA allowed me to actually feel
& go into the grief/loss. It also allowed me to receive healing Mother energy, which in turn made it possible for me to find self-love. This is so
important to overcoming certain traumas.
It is very important to keep
any "holding" work safe & non-sexual. It's also important for the patient to understand the potential for transferrence, etc. With regard to the patient who reported my analyst, I
wonder if he may have started her in the MDMA work too soon, before fully discussing & working through these kinds of
issues with her during regular therapy sessions.
It's really a darn shame.
(Submitted May 2001)
what is MDMA? click here to read more about it....
i have been diagnosed with ptsd, but had never heard of this before. it's interesting but not available
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The Habit of Identity
by Dr. Sam Vaknin
In a famous experiment, students
were asked to take a lemon home & to get used to it. Three days later, they were able to single out “their”
lemon from a pile of rather similar ones. They seemed to have bonded. Is this the true meaning of love, bonding, coupling? Do we simply get used to other human beings, pets, or objects?
Habit-forming in humans is
reflexive. We change ourselves & our environment in order to attain maximum comfort & well being. It's the effort that goes into these adaptive processes that forms a habit. The habit is intended to prevent us from constant experimenting & risk taking. The greater our well being, the better we function & the longer we survive.
Actually, when we get used
to something or to someone – we get used to ourselves. In the object of the habit we see a part of our history, all
the time & effort that we put into it. It's an encapsulated version of our acts, intentions, emotions & reactions. It's a mirror reflecting back at us that part in us, which formed the habit. Hence, the feeling
of comfort: we really feel comfortable w/our own selves thru the agency of the object of our habit.
Because of this, we tend to
confuse habits with identity. If asked WHO they are, most people will resort to describing their habits. They will relate
to their work, their loved ones, their pets, their hobbies, or their material possessions.
Yet, all of these can't constitute
part of an identity because their removal doesn't change the identity that we are seeking to establish when we enquire WHO
someone is. They're habits & they make the respondent comfortable & relaxed. But they aren't part of his identity in the truest, deepest sense.
Still, it's this simple mechanism
of deception that binds people together. A mother feels that her offspring are part of her identity because she is so used to them that
her well being depends on their existence & availability. Thus, any threat to her children is interpreted to mean a threat on her Self. Her reaction is, therefore, strong & enduring
& can be recurrently elicited.
The truth, of course, is that her children are a part of her identity in a superficial manner. Removing them will make her a different
person, but only in the shallow, phenomenological sense of the word. Her deep-set, true identity will not change as a result. Children do die at times & their mother does go on living, essentially unchanged.
But what is this kernel of
identity that I'm referring to? This immutable entity which is the definition of who we are & what we are & which,
ostensibly, isn't influenced by the death of our loved ones? What is so strong as to resist the breaking of habits that die hard?
It's our personality. This
elusive, loosely interconnected, interacting, pattern of reactions to our changing environment. Like the Brain, it's
difficult to define or to capture. Like the Soul, many believe that it doesn't exist, that it's a fictitious convention. Yet, we know that we do have a personality. We feel it, we
experience it. It sometimes encourages us to do things – at other times, as much as prevents us from doing them.
It can be supple
or rigid, benign or malignant, open or closed. Its power lies in its looseness. It's able to combine, recombine & permute in hundreds of unforeseeable ways. It metamorphizes
& the constancy of its rate & kind of change is what gives us a sense of identity.
Actually, when the personality
is rigid to the point of being unable to change in reaction to changing circumstances, we say that it's disordered. A personality disorder is the ultimate
misidentification. The individual mistakes his habits for his identity. He identifies himself with his environment,
taking behavioral, emotional & cognitive cues exclusively from it. His inner world is, so to speak, vacated, inhabited,
as it were, by the apparition of his True Self.
Such a person is incapable of loving & of living. He is incapable of loving because to love (at least according to our model) is to equate & collate two distinct entities: one's
Self & one's habits. The personality disordered sees no distinction. He is his habits & therefore,
by definition, can only rarely & w/an incredible amount of exertion, change them.
And, in the long
term, he is incapable of living because life is a struggle towards, a striving, a drive
at something. In other words: life is change. He who cannot change, cannot live.
Visit Dr. Vaknin's site that offers new insights on personality and the self, including many essays and excerpts from his book.
Who Me? Self-Esteem For People With Disabilities By Ryan J. Voigt, M.A. UW-Eau Claire Counseling Services
What is Self-Esteem?
Self-esteem is a term used to describe how we view ourselves. It's how we view our worth as a person. It may be more positive or more negative & it isn't set in stone. Thus, if someone has low self-esteem, he or she can do things to boost his or her self concept.
When someone has a healthy
or more positive self-esteem, he or she is able to accept him or herself "as is." This means acknowledging that we all have both strengths & weaknesses - & that's OK!
Healthy or positive self-esteem doesn't mean that someone has an inflated or self-righteous view of him or herself. One added challenge for a person w/a disability may be viewing him or herself as a person first. A disability is only one facet of a person.
Thus, for people with disabilities,
it's important to allow yourself to view your disability as one component of your life, not the only component. Another issue for people
with disabilities may be dealing with discrimination & stereotypes from society.
Our society places emphasis
on looks, speed & being the same as everyone else. Thus, people w/disabilities might place additional pressure on themselves to try to meet society's impossible standards.
Where does self-esteem come from?
Self-esteem is influenced by many variables while a person is developing his or her self-concept. Parents may provide a crucial role
in shaping a child's concept of him or herself. Parents can convey attitudes that the child is independent & successful or inadequate, incapable & inferior. Thus, lack of confidence does not necessarily equal lack of ability. It may just be a false set of beliefs that a person holds about him or herself. Friends & society can also powerfully influence a person's concept of him or herself.
College may be a time when
people re-evaluate their self-concept & re-shape their own identities to reflect what they believe is more accurate. For people with disabilities, parents, friends & society may have shaped your self-image in ways you
wish to change.
Consider the following statements:
- If you have depression & are taking medication for it do you ever conclude: "I can't go out with my friends because I can't drink while taking
this medication?" [All or nothing thinking]
- If you're deaf, do you ever think: "If I can't do a certain job that interests me because I'm deaf, I won't be able to do any interesting job?" [Overgeneralization]
- If you walk with unsteady gait, do you
ever think: "I'm a klutz because I have cerebral palsy?" [Mental Filter]
- If you have a reading disability, do you
ever think: "I just finished a book, but it doesn't count because I didn't read it as fast as other people?" [Disqualifying the positive]
- If you have ADHD, do you ever think: "I got in trouble for acting up in class; I know I'm going to fail?" [Jumping to conclusions]
- If you're blind, do you ever think: "I should be able to do anything that my sighted peers can?" [Should statements]
- If you have a speech impediment, do you
ever think: "If this person can't understand me that will be awful?" [Catastrophizing]
- If you have dyslexia, do you ever think: "I feel stupid having to explain to people that dyslexia is a "real" disability so I must be stupid?" [Emotional reasoning]
- If you have ADD & you miss an appointment
because you didn't write it down, do you think: "I'm so stupid because I have ADD?" [Mislabeling]
- If you're a wheelchair user & you fall
out of your chair because of a crack on the sidewalk, do you ever think: "I should have been more careful & avoided that crack?" [Personalization]
The statements above are examples
of things that people w/ disabilities may say to themselves when their having a bad day. The statements illustrate some examples
of thinking errors sometimes called cognitive distortions. These are patterns of thinking that people w/lower self-esteem may engage in more than people with higher self-esteem.
By identifying & changing
some of these errors, a person can begin to change how he or she views him or herself. You have become an expert at playing
on a field that isn't level as a result of dealing w/your disability & peoples' attitudes toward your disability. Read on for more information on self-esteem & disabilities.
Tips to improve self-esteem for people with disabilities:
1.) Maximize the positive & minimize the negative. Focus on your abilities more than your limitations. Everyone has both abilities & limitations. This isn't to say that you don't acknowledge that you have a disability, but rather, by focusing on & developing your abilities you can feel good about all the things
you can do.
2.) Avoid unrealistic comparisons.
Don't get caught up in comparing apples to oranges. Everyone has both strengths & limitations. A person w/a locomotor disability may not be able to compete in Olympic ice hockey, but he or she can compete in Paralympic
Sledge hockey.
3.) Set realistic goals for yourself. Since everyone has limitations, it isn't fair to expect yourself to be able to do something unrealistic. This may mean allowing yourself to take the extra time needed to read material & rewarding yourself for persevering. It may not be realistic to expect yourself to read something in the same amount of time as someone w/out a reading disability.
4.) Don't over-generalize.
If there's something that you can't do as a result of your disability, it isn't fair to conclude that you're an overall failure. There are many things that you can do. Don't tie all of your self-worth to any one attribute or event. Just because you might be a lousy cook doesn't mean that you're a lousy person in general.
5.) Avoid getting caught using "should" statements. For example, a student with ADHD says, "I should be able to finish this exam in
50 minutes like everyone else in the class." This is an example of a "should" statement that may not be accurate. Accommodations
like extra time on tests are an important tool to create equal opportunities for students to show what they know.
6.) Appreciate yourself - all of yourself. This means appreciating your disability too. There may be times when you believe that it's more annoying than appreciable, but focus on the positive aspects of your disability. One way to do this is making a list of your strengths including how your disability, or your
methods of coping with it, can be an asset.
Keep the Cool in School Promoting Non-Violent
Behavior in Children
By Bruce Duncan Perry, M.D., Ph.D.
As you watch children cross
the classroom threshold at the start of a new school year, you can't help but wonder: Will they connect with me? Will they get along with one another? Today, as children enter the "world" of school, you must consider another
factor-how can I ensure the safety of all the children in my group?
School shootings & the
graphic violence we all see in the media change the way adults & children view the world-from a world bright & full
of promise to a dark & potentially dangerous place. Even at the tender age of 2, children may experience a bully's threat.
A toddler may imitate his
favorite cartoon character & suddenly tackle a friend on the playground. Exposure to violence can change the way children
feel, act & behave - & not in positive ways.
Children are born with a remarkable
range of potential. They aren't born violent, nor are they naturally immune to the effects of violence. Yet some children
are more resistant than others & a rare few are unaffected. During these early years, you can increase children's ability
to be responsible, caring & creative. You might say it's the chance of a lifetime!
A Vaccine Against Violence
Bruce D. Perry, M.D., Ph.D,
a leading expert on brain development & children in crisis, has identified 6 core strengths that children need to be humane. A child who can form & maintain healthy emotional relationships, self-regulate, join & contribute to
a group & be aware, tolerant & respectful of himself & others will be more resourceful, more successful in social situations & more resilient.
Studies show that when a child
is violent, one or more of these core strengths didn't develop normally. The child without these strengths will be in greater
danger of becoming violent & also less able to cope w/bullies & other verbal or physical abuse. A child who doesn't develop these core strengths is a vulnerable child. Significantly, though, children with these core strengths rarely become violent & in fact, recover more quickly
when exposed to violence.
To help children develop these
crucial strengths, Scholastic has launched KEEP THE COOL IN SCHOOL, a company-wide campaign against violence & verbal
abuse. With this campaign, we hope to offer teachers, parents & children the tools to identify, develop & enhance
these core strengths. Promoting a child's emotional health is the most successful approach available to fighting violence.
And the payback is unparalleled: With your help, more children will grow up to be kind, thoughtful & productive.
The following article by Dr.
Perry offers an explanation of these 6 strengths. Over the year, Early Childhood Today will present 6 additional features,
each focusing on one of the core strengths.
The 6 Core Strengths
by Bruce D. Perry, MD, Ph.D.
Violence infects our children.
This infection is virulent in some & barely noticeable in others. Why do some children re-enact the violence they see
on television while others don't? Why do some chronically teased children cope by developing a sense of humor, while others become self-loathing & yet others plot to shoot their taunting peers?
Why do some children who make
these murderous plans actually act on them?
It's almost impossible to
answer these questions. We rarely know what makes a given child violent. But we do know that children with core strengths
rarely become violent. Healthy development is an antidote to the violence they're exposed to.
These core strengths build
upon each other to contribute to a child's emotional development. Together, they provide a strong foundation for future health,
happiness & productivity. Attachment, self-regulation, affiliation, awareness, tolerance & respect will each be explored in depth in later issues of Early Childhood Today.
Here is an overview of the
6 core strengths & why each is essential to healthy development.
1. ATTACHMENT: Being a Friend
Attachment is the capacity to form & maintain healthy emotional bonds w/another person. It's first acquired in infancy, as a child
interacts w/loving, responsive & attentive parents & caregivers.
Why it's
important: This core strength is the cornerstone of all the others. An infant's interactions w/a parent or primary
caregiver create his or her first relationship. Healthy attachments allow a child to love, to become a good friend & to have a positive & useful model for future relationships.
As a child grows,
other consistent & nurturing adults such as teachers, family friends & relatives will shape his ability to develop
attachments. The attached child will be a better friend, student & classmate - which promotes all forms of learning.
Signs of struggle:
A child who has difficulty with this strength has a hard time making friends & trusting adults. She may show little empathy for others & act in what seems to be a remorseless way.
Children unable to attach lack the emotional anchors needed to buffer the violence they see. They may isolate themselves, act out, reject a peer's friendly overtures, or withdraw socially. With few friends & apparently disconnected from her peers, this child is also at greater risk when exposed to violence.
2. SELF-REGULATION: Thinking Before You Act
Developing & maintaining
the ability to notice & control primary urges such as hunger & sleep - as well as feelings of frustration, anger &
fear - is a lifelong process. Its roots begin with the external regulation provided by parents or significant caregivers &
its healthy growth depends on a child's experience & the maturation of the brain.
Why it's
important: Pausing a moment between an impulse & an action is a life tool. Developing this strength helps a child physiologically
& emotionally. But it's a strength that must be learned-we aren't born with it. As children grow, our expectations for
them must be age appropriate.
For instance,
it's unreasonable to expect a 2-year-old to have complete bladder & bowel control before his body has matured. In social
situations, the age-appropriate strength to self-regulate may spell a child's success & build his self-confidence.
Signs of struggle:
When a child doesn't develop the capacity to self-regulate, he'll have problems sustaining friendships, learning & controlling
his behavior. He may blurt out a thoughtless & hurtful remark & express feeling hurt, hurt feelings or anger w/a shove or by damaging another child's work.
Just seeing a
violent act may set him off or deeply upset him. Children who struggle w/self-regulation are more reactive, immature &
impressionable & more easily overwhelmed by threats & violence.
3. AFFILLIATION: Joining In
The capacity to join others
& contribute to a group springs from our ability to form attachments. Affiliation is the glue for healthy human functioning: It allows us to form & maintain relationships with others -&
to create something stronger, more adaptive & more creative than the individual.
Why it's
important: Human beings are social creatures. We are biologically designed to live, play, grow & work in groups.
A family is a child's first & most important group, glued together by the strong emotional bonds of attachment. But most other groups that children join-such as a preschool
class, kids in the neighborhood, friends made while traveling-are based on circumstance or common interests.
It's in these
groups that children will have thousands of brief emotional, social, and cognitive experiences that can help shape their development.
And it is in these situations that children make stronger connections with peers-their first friendships.
Signs of struggle:
A child who is afraid or otherwise unable to affiliate may suffer a self-fulfilling prophecy: She is more likely to be excluded
& may feel socially feeling isolated. Healthy development of the core strengths of attachment & self-regulation make affiliation much easier.
But a distant,
disengaged or impulsive child won't be easily welcomed into a group. And in fact, she may act in ways that lead others to
tease or actively avoid her. The excluded child can take this pain & turn it on herself, becoming sad or self-loathing.
Or she can direct the pain outward, becoming aggressive & even violent.
Later in life,
without intervention, these children are more likely to seek out other marginalized children & affiliate with them. Unfortunately,
the glue that holds these groups together can be beliefs & values that are self-destructive or hateful to those who have
excluded them.
4. AWARENESS: Thinking of Others
Awareness is the ability to
recognize the needs, interests, strengths & values of others. Infants begin life self-absorbed & slowly develop awareness - the ability
to see beyond themselves & to sense & categorize the other people in their world.
At first this process is simplistic:
"I am a boy & she is a girl. Her skin is brown & mine is white." As children grow, their awareness of differences
& similarities becomes more complex.
Why it's
important: The ability to be attuned, to read & respond to the needs of theirs, is an essential element of human communication.
An aware child
learns about the needs & complexities of others by watching, listening & forming relationships w/a variety of children. He becomes part
of a group (which the core strength of affiliation allows him to do) & sees ways in
which we are all alike & different.
With experience,
a child can learn to reject labels used to categorize people, such as skin color or the language they speak. The aware child
will also be much less likely to exclude others from a group, to tease & to act in a violent way.
Signs of struggle:
A child who lacks the ability to be aware of others' needs & values is at risk for developing prejudicial attitudes. Having formed ideas about others without knowing them, she may continue
to make categorical, destructive & stereotypical, judgments: "She speaks English with an accent, so she must be stupid"
or "He's fat, so he must be lazy." This immature kind of thinking feeds the hateful beliefs underlying many forms of verbal
& physical violence.
5. TOLERANCE: Accepting Differences
Tolerance is the capacity
to understand & accept how others are different from you. This core strength builds upon another -awareness (once aware, what do you do with the differences you observe?).
Why it's important: It's natural & human
to be afraid of what's new & different. To become tolerant, a child must first face the fear of differences. This can
be a challenge because children tend to affiliate based on similarities-in age, interests, families, or cultures.
But they also
learn to reach out & be more sensitive to others by watching how the adults in their lives relate to one another. With
positive modeling, you can insure & build on children's tolerance. The tolerant child is more flexible & adaptive
in many ways. Most important, when a child learns to accept difference in others, he becomes able to value the things that make each of us special & unique.
Signs of struggle:
An intolerant child is likelier to lash out at others, tease, bully & if capable, will act out his intolerance in
violent ways. Children who struggle w/this strength help create an atmosphere of exclusion & intimidation for those people & groups they fear. This atmosphere promotes & facilitates violence.
6. RESPECT: Respecting yourself &
others
Appreciating your own self-worth
& the value of others grows from the foundation of the preceding 5 strengths. An aware, tolerant child w/good affiliation, attachment
& self-regulation strengths gains respect naturally. The development of respect is a lifelong process, yet its roots are
in early childhood, as children learn these core strengths and integrate them into their behaviors & their worldview.
Why it's important: Children will belong
to many groups, meet many kinds of people & will need to be able to listen, negotiate, compromise & cooperate. Having
respect enables a child to accept others & to see the value in diversity. He can see that every group needs many styles & many strengths to succeed & he can value each person in the group for her talents. When children respect - & even celebrate - diversity, they find the world
to be a more interesting, complex & safer place. Just as understanding replaces ignorance, respect replaces fear.
Signs of struggle:
A child who can't respect others is incapable of self-respect. She will be quick to find
fault with others, but she can also be her own harshest critic. Too often the trait a child ridicules in others reflects something
she hates in herself. The core of all violence is a lack of respect, for oneself & for others. When respect is missing, children
will likely become violent-because they value nothing.
These core strengths
provide a child w/the framework for a life rich in family, friends, and personal growth. Our world changes daily & becomes
increasingly diverse - & how much more complex that world will be when our children become parents! Teaching children
these core strengths gives them a gift they'll use throughout their lifetimes. They'll learn to live & prosper together
w/people of all kinds - each bringing different strengths to create a greater whole.
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